Are You Searching for the Secrets to a Failure-free Marriage and Thriving Family?

For over twenty-five years, I have been empowering women, men and couples to:

           *Get off the Relationship Roller Coaster
           *Heal the underlying reasons for their patterns of relationship pain and struggle
           *End their relationship problems for good 
           *Learn the secrets to creating the marriage or family of their dreams.

 
I am Debra Gordy, Transformational Psychotherapist and Coach, Spiritual Healing Intuitive, and author of the forth-coming book, Cinderella Wisdom:  A Woman's Journey of Spiritual Healing to Living Her Heart's Desire. 

Synthesizing the expertise, insights and wisdom I have gained from over two decades as a marriage and family relationship therapist, with spiritual energy therapies to help clients quickly and gracefully gain freedom from the pain of the past and step into a new beginning, with my innate and lifelong gifts as a Spiritual Healing Intuitive and spiritual teacher, I empower divorced and single women, and couples, to find hope, healing, and lasting solutions for their personal, marriage or family challenges.

Do you feel frustrated with not finding specialized, targeted help for your needs as a divorced woman?                                                                                                        

My premier women's program, Happily Ever After! can help you finally get it right the next time around, and become empowered with the personal foundation and skills you need to co-create your own dream marriage. 

Through this specialty program of Spiritual Healing and Transformational growth, women learn:

         *  Finish your divorce or last break-up
         *  How to tell a healthy relationship from an unhealthy one
         *  How to be at ease, being YOURSELF in relationships
         *  How to ATTRACT a good man
         *  How to nurture a good relationship (and how to tell the 
             difference between a healthy relationship, and an unhealthy one!)


 Susan* was such a client. 

When she learned about Happily Ever After!, and the idea that hidden patterns in her life could be at the root of the reasons that none of her previous relationships had worked out, she got excited and got right to work.

Susan kept her focus on her intention of healing her painful patterns, and creating new patterns of conscious relating in their place.  She created a new foundation for relationship success in place of her old patterns of pain, struggle and breaking up.

Today, at 43, Susan is happily married to a wonderful man, and together they are consciously creating their dream marriage.

*This client's name has been changed to protect her privacy & confidentiality.  

Is your spouse driving you crazy?

Are you fed up with all the conflict, misunderstanding and lack of emotional connection and support in your marriage?  My couple’s program, Creating Joy for Couples! empowers married and remarried couples with the secrets to getting off their own Relationship Roller Coasters ~ to stop fighting and start loving each other again.

                                                   




I know the pain and heart-ache of marital conflict first-hand, having been previously divorced myself. 
That was the past; I am now happily married to a wonderful man – and together, we have a joyful, heart-centered union.  Through the journey to my happy marriage, I discovered the secrets to lasting relationship harmony and love in the real world.  The wisdom and insights I have learned, coupled with healing of the hidden causes of relationship conflict, and practical Transformational self-care and relationship-care skills and tools are combined in this unique and exclusive specialty program of Spiritual Healing and Transformational growth.   


In this program, couples learn:

     *   Find and heal the underlying reasons for their particular cycles of relationship pain
     *   How to get themselves out of negative cycles, by understanding their unique
          Personal Energy Signature(s)™ and how to regain their personal emotional balance
          with easy-to-use Transformational self-care tools, so they can quickly restore
          harmony and emotional closeness in their marriage.
     *   How to deepen their emotional connection, trust, love and sexual fulfillment through
          understanding and applying the Seven Principles for Lasting Love™.
     *   How to navigate through differing needs and expectations.
     *   How to find forgiveness and healing (if needed) for deep relationship wounds, such as addiction,
          abuse or infidelity.
     *   How they create struggle in their marriage, and how to Create Joy instead!
    

Many couples who were previously on the brink of separation or divorce, have found hope, healing and renewal, and rebuilt their marriage on a new solid foundation for lasting success, happiness and emotional closeness through my program, Creating Joy for Couples!



Are you looking for quick, timely, inspiration and self-help tips to start creating your dream marriage this very day?  

You are invited to subscribe to my monthly e-newsletter, Creating Joy!  This free monthly publication brings subscribers resources, and timely inspiration all about Making Love Last a Lifetime!  New confirmed subscribers also receive my Special Report,  THE Question that will Heal and Transform Your Relationship!  I hope you will subscribe today!       

Is your adoptive family frequently in turmoil?

Are you worried sick as a parent, by your adopted teen’s problems, such as:   
  

         * Failing or bad grades in school,
            despite her ability                                            
         * Engaging in risky behaviors, such as substance use, 
            premarital sex
        
         * Truancy
         * Extreme anger and disrespect
         * Running away
         * Choosing friends who are a bad influence?

As an adopted parent, do you feel exhausted from all the stress in your family? 

Are your biological children exhausted, feeling neglected, and also showing signs of stress?


If you relate to these challenges and issues that children, teens and adults in adoptive families go through, then you or your children may be experiencing the after-effects of adoption-related trauma. 

Adoption is a wonderful blessing for children and families; a wonderful blessing born out of wounds.   

Those wounds don’t go away automatically, once a child has been placed in your loving home, or once your adoption has been finalized.   They linger inside the adopted child or teen, and they can show up in all the ways described above, and often more!


Adoption-related trauma wounds affect your child or teen, you and everyone else in your family.   To one degree or another, everyone in your family is touched by these wounds.   No wonder it may sometimes feel like the turmoil is all encompassing, and never ends. 

No wonder you may be feeling exhausted or at the end of your rope too much of the time.

Now there is hope and healing for the wounds of adoption.

You and your children don’t have to suffer with the emotional pain, and family turmoil of adoption any longer.   Through my specialty program Healing Adoption Wounds, you and your children can now release the impact and lingering effects of a painful birth experience or early childhood.  Your family can become happier, and more peaceful.  Your family relationships can become easier. 

Your adopted children and teens can come to peace within themselves, as they release and heal their painful inner wounds and memories.  

You can release the exhaustion, worry and turmoil you feel as a parent. With Healing Parenting(tm) Coaching you will learn how to maintain your centered, loving presence, as you love and guide your children day to day.  Together, you and your children can create a new foundation for personal happiness, increased feelings of love and connection within your adoptive family, feelings of security and self-worth, more success in school, in family relationships, creating healthy, uplifting friendships.  In so doing, you and your children will create a new beginning for success in all areas of their lives.  

You may be wondering how one therapist can specialize in these seemingly diverse personal and family problems and needs.


The connection is in the fact that, in their essence, all these concerns are relationship wounds - adoption wounds are wounds in relationships, specifically trauma-initiated relationship wounds.  
 
I have been a relationship therapy specialist for over twenty years.   The most common theme for those who seek out my help is traumatic experiences of one sort or another.    Healing trauma is my greatest specialty and deep passion. 

My journey of healing my own adoption experience was what led me originally to the methods I use in Transformational Psychotherapy™, so I know from my own life the transformative potential and power they offer.  My life and family relationships are now gratefully and happily healed.   Because of this, I have a particularly tender spot for assisting other adoptive families and adoptees through Healing Adoption Wounds, as I have done for over sixteen years.   


At the heart of Transformational Psychotherapy™ and Healing Parenting™ Coaching is my life-long innate gift as a Spiritual Healing Intuitive.  With this Divinely-given gift, I am enabled to discern the root causes for clients' trauma wounds, how traumatic experiences have impacted them, and am spiritually guided in the way that I facilitate clients’ Transformational healing, recovery and growth.

If you are ready to stop struggling with marriage or relationship problems and get off the Relationship Roller Coaster, or find real answers for your stepfamily or adoptive family turmoil, you can learn more & find the lasting solutions, hope and healing you seek at my website www.DebraGordyMS.com .  

Through-out this directory listing there are links to specific pages on my site.  These links take you to specific information about my specialty programs of Spiritual Healing and Transformational growth that can help you step out of the struggle, pain and heartache in your marriage or family.

Follow the links and start creating the marriage or family of your heart’s desire today.

Warmly,
Debra

Debra Gordy, MS MRET
Transformational Psychotherapist & Coach
Spiritual Healing Intuitive, Teacher & Guide


Author of the forth-coming book, Cinderella Wisdom:  A Woman's Journey of Spiritual Healing to Living Her Heart's Desire