John Romig Johnson, Ph.D, NCPsyA, IAAP, NYAAP
1020 Tyron Circle, Charleston, South Carolina 29414
When couples come together it is often either a case of opposites attract or when we first met, we felt like we had known each other all our lives. Later one says, “You’re not the same person I feel in love with.” Of course not you fell in love with a projection, an inner image and not that person. Or in the case of opposites often the very things that attracted you to each other, become the things you fight about. Once you loved have sensitive she was and now she’s just finicky and oversensitive. She loved his confidence and strength and now it has become narcissistic and bullying. Same sex couples often assume a similarity and mistakenly fail to see the significant difference in the partner....