Grief and Loss Counseling in Anthem, AZ.

We work through processing grief and loss through meeting people where they are at in the grief process opposed to pushing or pulling them into a place where they are not ready to go. This means that we use a compassionate approach combined with tools and strategies to support movement through the grief process and to create closure and movement forward that honors the loss.

I am sincerely sorry you are suffering. When you lose someone, or something, important, it can be so very painful. I have a very high level of training in helping people with these sorts of pains. You may have lost a person, a relationship, or perhaps a pet? I understand how bad such losses can be. It can feel like no one will ever understand. But you will receive my full attention, support, and high level of both academic and clinical training as we work together to attempt to sensitively, properly process your loss and slowly increase your quality of life. I know you might be feeling at your worst, or even worse than your worst. I hope to have the priveledge of supporting you.

When we suffer a loss we grieve, but often we are given bad advice on how to grieve - "You've grieved long enough, just move on" or "You shouldn't feel the way you feel." People may feel uncomfortable with the length or intensity of our expressions of grief and we may feel guilty about expressing grief. But feeling sad, overwhelmed and confused is a natural part of grieving. You must go through the process at your own pace. I will help you express and process your grief in a safe, supportive environment, so that you can begin to live again, not forgetting, but honoring your memories without being overwhelmed.

There are times when clients are not aware of their grief and loss issues. My approach is to bring these issues to light, educate them on the stages of grief, validate their pain and normalize their experience. When a client is given permission to grieve in a safe and supportive environment they begin to feel lighter and can embrace a new perspective.

Grey Matters International and the work of Kevin J. Fleming, Ph.D approaches issues of grief & loss through the lens of innovation----instead of growing the same neural networks responsible for the pain in weekly therapy sessions, we reset the brain to move forward quicker and efficiently by working on the stuck limbic system so as to empower the person with more success and traction. For no one wants to stay in a grief mode for too long; but when you don’t include the brain in your work with someone, you risk describing the water to them while they drown and calling it success. Contact Grey Matters International, Inc now at kevin@kevinflemingphd.com or 877-606-6161.

As an experienced Christian Counselor and ordained pastor, I’ve supported many men through the grief process. If you’re grieving, I will provide a supportive space for you to process your emotions. Because grief is a normal part of being human, I can’t take it away or rush you through it. However, I can help you identify barriers to grief, and help you prevent the grief process from becoming stuck. I know grief professionally. But I also know grief personally. Losing one of my best friends and my beloved grandparents was hard enough, but facing the untimely death of my father was, and is, a uniquely painful experience. If given the chance, I would be honored to help you process your grief.

Loss is always difficult, but if the grief impacts your daily living, I can help you get your life back. The first step is helping you to adjust to the changes, then we work towards emotional acceptance, with the final step being a renewal of self-awareness. Processing grief does take time; I often use EMDR to facilitate the process and help minimize the time it takes to heal. I am also comfortable working within a spiritual or religious context.

Dr. Keller helps children and adults develop coping stratagies to deal with issues around grief and loss. Loss is a central theme in the development of psychological symptoms of depression and anxiety.Grief and loss issues may develop following the death of a loved one and can also be prominent after divorce and separation. Loss of health, loss of status, loss of self esteem, moves, loss of employment, are issues that can contribute to emotional pain and distress in relationships. Dr. Keller blends psychodynamic approaches wth research based cognitive behavioral interventions to assist individuals with grief and loss.

Grief counseling helps people cope with grief and mourning following the loss of a loved one or due to major life changes that trigger feelings of grief (i.e. job loss or divorce). It provides a space for individuals to work through and process the complex emotions surrounding loss. Healthy grieving results in remembering the loss with a newfound sense of peace, rather than searing pain.

Facing the loss of someone or something you are bonded to is one of the most challenging aspects of being human. There is truly no right or wrong way to grieve, although well-meaning family and friends tend to have many opinions and time-lines as to what is proper grieving. I assist clients with grief on their own terms and help guide them to a place of understanding and patience with their process of grieving.

I have worked with individuals, couples, children, and families as they cope with the loss of a loved one. More specifically, I coordinated a family bereavement program and provided therapy to family members at San Diego Hospice. As the Clinical Supervisor in the Bereavement Department I supervised approximately ten to fifteen therapist interns a year and provided intensive training on the topic of grief. Grief and loss does not always show up the way you think it will and I will honor your space with compassion and heart to grieve in whatever way is right for you. Sometimes, even life events that are both good and bad can bring up feelings of loss such as graduation, change in job, moving,

I understand grief as a naturally occurring process that we undergo as humans because we value connection. That said, it doesn't feel great and we sometimes need help navigating our loss and finding some meaning so we can move forward. I am here to help you with that process if that is what you need. That process begins with normalizing your grief and putting it in context. I also here to simply listen. Sometimes that's all we need.