Matt Pavlik, MA, LPCC-S

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  • Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor
  • 267 Regency Ridge Dr, Dayton, Ohio, 45459
  • Phone: 937-776-7290
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  • Session Fees: $100 - $150 sliding scale
  • This member is also available for online counseling.
  • Online-counseling methods: Email, Phone, IM, Webcam

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Philosophy and Approach

Matt is compassionate when you are hurting, and challenging when you are wanting direction and change in your life. Both truth and grace are needed to heal. Matt will help you find the root causes of your concerns. His approach considers your experiences, beliefs, feelings, behaviors, and spiritual life.

Counseling with Matt can involve insight-oriented talk-therapy, emotionally-focused couples therapy, EMDR, and personalized prayer.

About Matt Pavlik

Matt became a Christian July 1991. He graduated from the University of Illinois in 1993 with a B.S. in Computer Science. In 1995 he moved to Ohio to pursue a Masters of Arts in Clinical Pastoral Counseling from Ashland Theological Seminary. He married in 1999 and has 2 daughters and 2 sons. Matt founded New Reflections Counseling, Inc. in March 2003.

Matt is the author of Marriage from Roots to Fruits: Understanding God's Design for Growing in the Good Soil. Available as an EBook and Print.


Matt completed the following courses to better help his clients:

· Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (February 2015)

· EMDR Certification (May 2013)

· Cloud Townsend OWI (April 2013)

· Formational Prayer Essential (March 2013)

· EMDR (November 2012)

· Jesuit Spiritual Center - Personally Directed Retreat (October 2012)

· Ministries of Pastoral Care (June 2012)

· Formational Prayer Caregiver Training (January 2012)

· Formational Prayer Summer Intensive (June 2011)

· Advanced Formational Prayer (September 2010)

· The Ministry of Formational Prayer (June 2009)

Counseling for Individuals – Adults

I provide insight oriented talk therapy to help clients gain self-understanding in relationship to the truth of the Bible. This approach includes visiting past emotional wounds and false beliefs that steal present day vitality. I apply truth to these false beliefs resulting in more peace in the present and more hope for the future. Talking through hurts brings healing. Emotional pain is a heavy burden that can be lifted over time. Some burdens are permanently lifted, while others are patiently borne through intimate relationships with God and others. Counseling facilitates both outcomes.

Counseling for Introverts

I help introverts find their true God-given identity. Introverted clients are wired differently than 75% of the world’s population. They are often misunderstood. Matt Pavlik, founder of New Reflections Counseling, is an introvert who has studied and understands the unique needs of introverts. Because introverts are a minority, they often are starved to feel understood. They may be especially gifted, sensitive, and acquainted with feeling lonely. But introverted or extroverted, God made everyone with a unique purpose. Every person is a one of a kind work of art.

Spiritual Formation Counseling

I provide experiential prayer-focused counseling to help clients develop their relationship with Jesus. Formational Counseling is healing care which integrates Christian Counseling, Spiritual Direction, and Healing Prayer. Together, through formational counseling we will:

1. Cooperate with the Holy Spirit’s direction to provide the care you need

2. Position you to experience the truth about yourself in relation to Jesus

3. Increase your awareness of your brokenness so you can experience healing

4. Facilitate your deepening relationship with Jesus Christ

Counseling for Couples – Marriages and Relationships

I provide counseling for those experiencing a breakdown in their relationship. The breakdown is a painful result of a negative cycle. The cycle usually starts well before the couple met. Everyone has some sort of emotional baggage. Untreated, this emotional baggage results in defensiveness, guardedness, withdrawal, verbal attacks, etc. Motivation for changing one’s self is crucial to the success of marriage. The person who feels the pain is the person who is ready for help. This person can set appropriate boundaries in the relationship.

Counseling for Families

I provide family system counseling to improve adult–adult relationships. I focus on communication, understanding, and boundaries between family relationships. God made each nuclear family to have its own unique, self-governing identity.

Recovery and Help

I help clients recover from: Abuse, Neglect, Trauma, PTSD, Complex PTSD, Anxiety, Panic, Dissociation, Poor Self-Esteem, Codependency, Addictions, Pornography, Infidelity, Distance from God, Loneliness, Depression, Loss

I help clients achieve: Emotional and Spiritual Healing, Communication, Conflict Resolution, Assertiveness, Setting Boundaries, Trusting, Marriage Restoration, Dating Decisions, Grieving, Personal Growth as an Introvert, Getting in Touch with Feelings, Spiritual Growth and Connecting to God


Matt schedules appointments in the Dayton area. If you are not local he also provides distance counseling.

Matt Pavlik Reaches

Dayton OH