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July 25, 2014
by Casey Truffo, LMFT

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Dealing with the In-Laws

July 25, 2014 04:55 by Casey Truffo, LMFT  [About the Author]

dealingwiththe in laws
You love your spouse more than life itself, but you are very uneasy about your spouse's parents' significance in your family's life and decisions. Issues with your in-laws can be an extremely tough situation and can make your life unbearable at times. If you have issues with your in-laws, you need to deal with those issues now. And if you plan to have children, not dealing with present-day issues can make that experience a living hell. [More]

July 24, 2014
by Christie Hunter

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Psychology of Internet Dating: How to Stay Encouraged while Waiting for the One?

July 24, 2014 04:55 by Christie Hunter  [About the Author]

psychologyof internet dating howto stay encouragedwhile waitingforthe one
At one time or another, most single people who have access to the Internet have tried online communities and groups to meet someone special. However, experiences of online daters show a controversial picture of this dating platform. On the one hand, there are dating companies that aggressively advertise their business as the ultimate source of life-long happiness, while on the other hand, one often hears heartbreaking stories of lying and cheating. The truth lies between these two extreme ends and vigilantly using these sites really can banish your loneliness forever; however, there a few misperceptions and guidelines that should be clarified before getting started. [More]

July 22, 2014
by Casey Truffo, LMFT

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Why are Women Attracted to Bad Boys?

July 22, 2014 04:55 by Casey Truffo, LMFT  [About the Author]

whyare women attractedto bad boys
Did you ever notice how a lot of sensible, responsible, accomplished women are attracted to "bad boys"? What is it that otherwise kind, quiet and conservative women see in rebels? There are many different variations of bad boys. There are the ones that are seriously b-a-d b-o-y-s who have regular problems with the law, use drugs, and are violent. [More]

July 19, 2014
by Christie Hunter

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Summer Coming: Kids Out of School - How to Avoid Sibling Rivalry?

July 19, 2014 04:55 by Christie Hunter  [About the Author]

summer coming kids outof school howto avoid sibling rivalry
Just because parents love their children unconditionally does not necessarily mean that siblings also share the same level of affection. Kids fighting with one another can become a serious domestic problem when one child dominates or bullies the other persistently. While it seems like an ordinary everyday scenario, the situation can become complicated if not addressed in early stages. You can do several things, especially now when the summer is approaching and your kids will be spending much more time at home – with each other. [More]

July 18, 2014
by Casey Truffo, LMFT

keeping your friendswhen startinga new relationship

Keeping Your Friends when Starting a New Relationship

July 18, 2014 04:55 by Casey Truffo, LMFT  [About the Author]

keeping your friendswhen startinga new relationship
Do you kick your friends to the curb when you are in a relationship and then expect them to be there for you when the relationship doesn't work out? If you do, you are treading on very thin ice. It is easy to have tunnel vision when a relationship is first starting and to spend all your time and put all your focus on your new-found beau. If you find yourself spending every waking minute (and every sleeping minute) with your new found love, you need to take a step back and rethink some things. [More]

July 15, 2014
by Casey Truffo, LMFT

shouldyou continue hanging outwith your ex

Should you Continue Hanging Out with Your Ex?

July 15, 2014 04:55 by Casey Truffo, LMFT  [About the Author]

shouldyou continue hanging outwith your ex
Many people have had past relationships with individuals who shared similar interests and who were great companions. Some give credit to their exes for helping them through rough spots in their life, showing them they have worth, and/or being their "safety net". Sometimes when relationships end, people vow to remain friends, knowing that they are in a better place because of those now ended relationships. [More]

July 11, 2014
by Casey Truffo, LMFT

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Agreeing to Disagree

July 11, 2014 04:55 by Casey Truffo, LMFT  [About the Author]

agreeingto disagree
If you have been in an intimate relationship for any amount of time, you probably have several topics you have learned that you cannot talk about with your other half. Maybe you and your best friend support opposite political parties or you and your spouse disagree on how much time each of you should spend with friends or participating in hobbies alone, such as fishing, traveling, or crocheting. If you find yourself in similar situations, it is time to "agree to disagree." [More]

July 8, 2014
by Casey Truffo, LMFT

workingon your marriagein individual therapy

Working on Your Marriage in Individual Therapy

July 8, 2014 04:55 by Casey Truffo, LMFT  [About the Author]

workingon your marriagein individual therapy
When there are problems in a marriage, spouses can have very different ideas about the best course for tackling them. So it’s not surprising that while one person might feel that marriage counseling is a viable solution, the other might not buy into it or be suspicious. While it takes two people to make a marriage work, it doesn’t necessarily take two people sitting on a therapist’s couch to have a positive influence on the relationship. [More]

July 2, 2014
by Christie Hunter

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Birth Order as an Adult

July 2, 2014 04:55 by Christie Hunter  [About the Author]

birth orderasan adult
There is no denying the fact that factors like education and parenting style play a vital role in developing the personality and learning skills of a child, but another factor that significantly influences the personality of a child is birth order. Factors like communication skills, cognitive skills, decision-making abilities depend on the birth order of a person. Not only this, birth order also influences the psychology of a person. Factors like the number of siblings, age gap between siblings and birth order decide the personality of a child (Leman, 2009). [More]

July 1, 2014
by Casey Truffo, LMFT

balancing workand family

Balancing Work and Family

July 1, 2014 04:55 by Casey Truffo, LMFT  [About the Author]

balancing workand family
There are only 24 hours in a day, and we have to choose how to use them. Often we feel stressed because there is not a balance between our responsibilities and what we enjoy. Our lives naturally fall out of balance from time to time, so we have to set time aside to assess how things are going, and what we might need to change to make sure our daily lives reflect what’s important to us. [More]