Grief and Loss Counseling in Paradise, CA.

Have you lost a person that is dear to you? Do you feel that your whole world has come to an end, although the outside world still keeps moving on in the same old way, indifferent to your pain? Do you feel that friends do not really understand what you are going through, and can't fathom your pain. I offer a warm, welcoming and safe place where I can help you work through your grief. I would be honored to listen to your story. Know that my door is open, and that I have a space waiting for you: I am here to help.

The experience of grief and loss, while expected at various life stages, can result in physical pain, and the emergence of symptoms that lead to experiencing a slow downward spiral in overall wellbeing, and perhaps desire to withdrawal from personal and professional commitments. Many clients seek compassionate and sensitive guidance to navigate through the ups and downs of any number of losses, ranging from diminishing health, to ending a relationship, or other life transition. Together, clients and I develop a transformative plan to stabilize, heal, gain insight and to enhance their proficiency to improve the strength needed to reconstitute their skills and hopes for today and the future.

Grief and loss is, unfortunately, a normal part of living. There is no single "correct" way to grieve: different cultures and even individuals from the same culture grieve differently. The only consistent feature is that grief takes time. The most effective thing anyone can do for someone grieving is to be there—to listen, to empathize, to walk along with the grief. There is no "fixing" grief. But counseling can help prevent normal grief from developing into major depression or other mental health conditions.

When you come to us for help dealing with your loss or grief, you will find a counselor who is caring and can empathize with you. We understand what you've been through. We know that it's been difficult. We will listen well and walk with you through the many feelings and thoughts you have about your loss. We will help you set some goals and help you with strategies to get back to the healthy place that you want to be.

Grey Matters International and the work of Kevin J. Fleming, Ph.D approaches issues of grief & loss through the lens of innovation----instead of growing the same neural networks responsible for the pain in weekly therapy sessions, we reset the brain to move forward quicker and efficiently by working on the stuck limbic system so as to empower the person with more success and traction. For no one wants to stay in a grief mode for too long; but when you don’t include the brain in your work with someone, you risk describing the water to them while they drown and calling it success. Contact Grey Matters International, Inc now at kevin@kevinflemingphd.com or 877-606-6161.