Anger Management and Counseling in Port Byron, NY.

Anger can tell us a lot about ourselves and areas in our life that may be frustrating or upsetting or it may be a sign of deep sadness that we have not paid enough attention to. Working with you in a psychodynamic relational approach, I work collaboratively with you in a non judgmental way to identify and understand your triggers better. Once we've identified the source, we can work together on finding more positive ways of communicating with ourselves and those around us, learning better ways to meet our needs or heal from past, painful wounds. Ultimately, working with clients to find their sources of positive strength and coping in order to see themselves in a new way.

Anger is one of our fundamental emotions, part of the basic machinery of our mind and personality. In some ways it is a useful tool that helps to motivate and energize us in seeking fairness and justice in the world around us. But this powerful hold-over from our primal history can also be enormously destructive if we lose control of it. If your anger is slipping out of your control and you find yourself saying or doing things that damage your reputation or your relationships, hurt those around you, or otherwise consistently put you on the outside of society's expectations for behavior, you need help to find tools or strategies to change this and I would be happy to help.

Grey Matters International and the work of Kevin J. Fleming, Ph.D approaches issues of anger management in a very humane yet fresh perspective. You see, anger is a normal emotion but it is the valence (intensity) as well as the coupling choice of what one does with this that is the problem. Telling someone to "not" do it or modifying behavior with a trite psychological plan that only breeds a compliant response is not the way to change anger. Brainwave optimization is a new cutting edge technology that allows one to rewire circuitry responsible for reactivity driving the anger. Contact Grey Matters International, Inc now at kevin@kevinflemingphd.com or 877-606-6161.