Great Couples Counseling in Midland, TX. Therapy to heal relationships.

I provide counseling for married or dating couples to address various issues regarding their relationship. Whether it is helping couples to learn their partner's "Love Language" (as described by Dr. Gary Chapman in his book THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES) or better communication skills, or conflict resolution techniques or addressing specific problems within the relationship; counseling can be beneficial in helping each individual learn to understand their partner and their self.

I am a big believer in emotionally focused therapy (EFT) for couples and relationships. Attachment theory is a powerful frame of reference and one in which couples can learn to attune to their partner's needs and bring greater harmony to the relationship. I work with each partner and then come together to understand the picture as a whole. Through EFT it is entirely possible to bring new understanding to both partners so that they can re-ignite the passion and cut through the frustration of mixed messages and hurt feelings. Additionally, I work with clients struggling with porn addiction or sexually compulsive behaviors which can have detrimental effects on a relationship.

Couples often that if two broken pieces come together then it will make one solid piece. Two broken pieces placed together are still two broken pieces. What I want to do is to help you understand that while in a relationship it's easy to forget to mend your own broken pieces instead the quest begins of how to fix someone else when the true healing needs to come from within. In couples counseling with me you will discover how to gracefully learn how to do this together without blame, shame, or guilt.

Offering couples therapy to ensure both partners are on the same page and can find stability in the relationship. It’s important to be prepared for marriage. Whether you are seriously dating couple, engaged or already married, I have the pre-marital and marriage program for your needs. I am a certified PREPARE/ENRICH Facilitator and a couples counseling provider of Twogetherintexas.com. I offer an interactive and integrated program known as the PREPARE/ENRICH to help prepare you to learn skills, learn your strengths and work on growth in your relationships.

What are the most common couples' issues? If you are thinking "communication, conflict, sex, money, child rearing" you are correct. However, most therapists will go after the symptom on each side of the couple fence thinking that the way to effective change is by getting each party to "work" on their respective "issue". Many times the parties don’t agree but comply. Imagine if you could align the unconscious brains of a couple and stop the "working on your issues" part that has become so popular in therapy settings? Contact kevin@kevinflemingphd.com to learn how! Or call 877-606-6161. DR. FLEMING'S NEW RELATIONSHIP/COUPLES INTENSIVES. www.kevinflemingphd.com/marriage-couples-retreats.php