Great Couples Counseling in Louisburg, KS. Therapy to heal relationships.

When your relationship isn't working, it feels as if nothing in life is working. I help couples understand what's underneath the hurts, the fears, and the assumptions we make of our partners. Through this uncovering I help couples cultivate a deeper, more compassionate understanding of our partner as well as ourselves. Once we learn what we're feeling, we can figure out what we need from our relationship.

Each individual in a couple brings with them their own baggage. Often this baggage impacts our attachment styles and how we allow ourselves to be loved and how we love those around us. By getting curious and exploring our attachment styles, we can enrich our relationships and love more deeply. Through this work, we often learn to live more peacefully in the world around us.

Is the honeymoon over? Sometimes daily responsibilities, stress, or crisis can take the romance out of relationships. When a relationship is strong there is honesty, love and confidence that your spouse will be there when you most need them. Don't let your relationship suffer until there is no recovery. I work with couples who want to reconnect, or work on communication, conflict resolution, and other issues to keep their relationship strong or rebuild what they once shared. Whatever the state of your relationship, your decision to engage in counseling is a positive step toward creating a loving, supportive relationship with your partner.

If you are chronically unhappy, angry ,disappointed, hurt, and distrustful in any significant relationship, we can help you today. Debra with work with one , both, all all parties in the relationship mix. Our key mission starts with creating a safe, private, judgement free environment for you to talk, listen, and move forward, Debra uses methods to quickly reduce barriers make intimacy and respect. Small take home steps that help each partner learn skills and tools unique to the relationship Debra's typical client have issues with their adult children, those who love or live with another's addiction (drugs/gambling/pornography/anger), co-work/supervisor, or spouse/partner

Your relationship is my client. We we will look what is working and what is not working. We will look not only at the way you communicate, but the message under the communication. Research tells us 85% of communication is non-verbal, so the message behind the words is critical to explore. There are other proven ways such as the research of John Gottman and Susan Johnson.

As a couple therapist I will work to provide you an understanding of what is going on in your relationship that is causing distress. I have extensive training in the Gottman Method and will also draw upon my knowledge of Dr. Sue Johnson's work in Emotion Focused Therapy. If you are in distress we need to work to help you find ways to communicate your needs to one another and to be heard by your partner. There are practical tools that I can give you so that you can learn ways to communicate and connect. Couples utilizing these methods commonly find that they notice some immediate relief and are able to begin to communicate in a way that each partner feels heard and understood.