Great Couples Counseling in Lancaster, CA. Therapy to heal relationships.

Licensed therapists for relationships and marriages in Lancaster, California. Discounts available (see profiles).


John Kane, AMFT, APCC
Couples Counselor

John Kane, AMFT, APCC

Associate Marriage and Family Therapist

Lancaster, California 93534 | 4086568564

Without conflict, couples do not achieve intimacy. The challenge is helping you and your partner learn how to have healthy conflict that leads to intimacy, rather than destructive conflict that destroys the relationship. While I work with all couples, I specialize in working with neuro-diverse couples. I usually start with helping you learn ground rules for being able to have safe, constructive, healthy conflict to reduce and eliminate destructive relational patterns. I also use Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT) to help you reconnect, learn healthy communication skills, rekindle the flame that you once had, and start talking to each other again. If you are willing to work, I am here for you!

Jace Draper, LMFT, MA
Couples Counselor

Jace Draper, LMFT, MA

Marriage and Family Therapist

Available for Online Therapy

Married or not, romantic relationships are hard work! Whether you’ve been working on yourselves individually and are looking to now come together and work-or you’re here for the couples and individual work in a combined session, I’m here to support your needs as a couple to find out what it’s like to like each other again. I work to support you in navigating both the typical and unexpected life events as a couple, helping you heal from past wounds and develop new habits towards each other. Are you ready to stop the crazy cycle? Let’s get started.

Patricia Emerson, Ph.D., LMFT
Couples Counselor

Patricia Emerson, Ph.D., LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, #37970

Sierra Business Park 190 Sierra Court, Unit C-4, Palmdale, California 93550 | 661-703-3342

When I conduct couple therapy, I respect each of the parties, listen to each one and balance my time and attention between you. One of the hardest things I will tell couples from the beginning session is that If you, as a couple, are thinking of separating, I encourage you to continue therapy for a period anyway. What you learn about yourself in a relationship, what you resolve for yourself will mean better communication and better understanding for you in this or any other relationship.

Vanessa Hughes, PhD, MA, MFT, MAT, MAICS, SEP
Couples Counselor

Vanessa Hughes, PhD, MA, MFT, MAT, MAICS, SEP

WELL COACHED LIFE| GRIT Kids Coaching

Available for Online Therapy

Let me guess. One partner feels alone and like they don't matter and the other feels they are always being criticized and can't get anything right. The more one asks for the other to show up, the more the partner disappears physically and emotionally. You both bicker and fight and the idea of sitting and just hanging out seems elusive, if not impossible. Something like this? Often we crave connection but are blocked by the pain and the history that gets in the way. Small fights about little things become battles that highlight our struggle to have our basic relational needs met. I can help you get under the bickering to the parts crying out for connection- to an enriching relationship.

Brian Jones, AMFT
Couples Counselor

Brian Jones, AMFT

Brian La Roy Jones, Associate Marriage & Family Therapist

Available for Online Therapy

Discover how you can go from rejected to connected! Did you know the reactivity you experience is not your fault? (This is one of the main things that causes fights and arguments. It's when you feel out of control, & it leads to doing or saying things you regret, impulsivity, & leads to hurt & separation). I show couples how they can reduce the personal & relational reactivity they experience & increase feeling peaceful, calm, understood, validated, safe, accepted, & connected. I help couples discover their attachment strategies (how we feel safe & get our needs met). This is necessary in order to create lasting improvement, safety, trust, understanding, & connection, in your relationship.


You Have Found The Best Couples Counselors in Lancaster, CA. Restore Your Relationship.

Thank you for visiting our California search of licensed therapists for couples in Lancaster who specialize in helping relationships and marriages heal and overcome division and hurt. Relationships are hard. Unless you are actively working towards coming together, by default you are drifting apart. It takes work. A licensed therapist is an expert at helping to untangle the mess that can develop when things go wrong. Find honest and effective couples Counseling in Lancaster and renew your relationship.

Lancaster is located in Los Angeles County, California. It has a land area of 94.29 square miles and a water area of 0.26 square miles.  The population of Lancaster is 161,103 people with 47,427 households and a median annual income of $47,225. .


Therapy Affordability Meter for Lancaster, CA

Some budgeting needed

While counseling can certainly be an expense for individuals and families in Lancaster, with proper budgeting, it is entirely do-able and the risk/reward is worth it. For some families, it may be difficult to sustain a commitment to therapy without proper insurance coverage. If this is you, ask your therapist about low cost options as practitoners in and around Lancaster may have flexibility or sliding scales. Low cost counseling and affordable therapy are also sometimes offered by listed city and university level clinics, check with your local Lancaster public health department.