Anger Management and Counseling in Lauderdale Lakes, FL.

I have worked with many clients that express intense anger and my experience has led me to conclude that anger is just the tip of a complicated iceberg that has a history and reason to exist. Anger typically pushes people away and protects the person who is feeling it or holding onto to it from getting hurt again. I encourage my clients to share their anger with me and take an inquisitive approach into understanding the history and complexity of this feeling. Once the feeling is understood it is more simple to tame, and control the emotion.

Our approach goes beyond merely teaching patients coping mechanisms and skillful thinking. Through hypnotherapy, we address anger at its core, targeting the root causes to eliminate the triggers that lead to anger reactions. By delving into the subconscious mind, we aim to uncover and resolve underlying issues, fostering lasting emotional healing and a reduction in anger-related symptoms.

In my experience as an EMDR therapist, I pay close attention to the links between past and present. I’ve seen time and time again how unhealed emotional wounds resurface and come out sideways. While anger management can provide helpful strategies, they don’t get to the heart of the issue. Often, anger is what we see on the surface, but the real problem is what’s underneath the anger. Negative beliefs like “I’m helpless,” “I’m out of control,” and “I’m a failure,” start to bubble up, and anger comes to the rescue. It can get us in trouble, but at least it gets the blood pumping. With research-proven EMDR therapy, I help men heal anger at its source so it doesn’t have to be managed.

I don’t believe in Anger Management. Instead, I believe in getting rid of anger (Anger Resolution). Most of us learn how and when to be angry as children and continue to react the same way as adults. I work with you to eliminate anger by lowering reactivity and by helping you to explore new, more personally beneficial ways to respond to potentially rageful situations. No matter how angry you are, if you are coming to see me because you (or a loved one) feel that you need help with anger, I can help you. I am certified in Anger Resolution and I use many different techniques to lower your reactivity and help you eliminate rage--and not one of them includes counting to 10!

Grey Matters International and the work of Kevin J. Fleming, Ph.D approaches issues of anger management in a very humane yet fresh perspective. You see, anger is a normal emotion but it is the valence (intensity) as well as the coupling choice of what one does with this that is the problem. Telling someone to "not" do it or modifying behavior with a trite psychological plan that only breeds a compliant response is not the way to change anger. Brainwave optimization is a new cutting edge technology that allows one to rewire circuitry responsible for reactivity driving the anger. Contact Grey Matters International, Inc now at kevin@kevinflemingphd.com or 877-606-6161.