Great Couples Counseling in Alexander, NY. Therapy to heal relationships.

Relationships can be complicated. You may be struggling with a particular issue and not know how to approach it with your partner. Or you may feel like you're repeating the same patterns over and over. Perhaps your partner experienced a traumatic event and you want to be supportive, but aren't sure what to do to help. Maybe you are just having a hard time talking to each other and getting along. Couples therapy can help! We provide a comfortable and open place to discuss your concerns, feelings and goals. We help couples gain a deeper understanding of themselves and their issues, and work collaboratively with them to build effective communication skills, reduce conflict, and promote growth.

Why do we seem to have the same arguments over and over again? How do I know if we are really supposed to be together? Are there things we could be doing to better support each other, to help each other grow and be our best selves? If we really love each other, why do we so often hurt each other? How do I know if this is real love, anyway? Relationships are hard. Even more than desire, they require effort and understanding to make them work. Often, even if two people really love each other, one or both may need help to maintain the right effort or understanding to keep the balance necessary for long-term success. Having outside, objective support can make all the difference.

We know that even the healthiest relationships experience times where they feel lonely, and like their love has run its course. It is easy to let the stress of work, family and unexpected life events you affect you. Couples counseling gives couples the tools to improve communication, strengthen intimacy and deal with conflict. When you attend couples counseling with Transformation Counseling Services, we dig deep beneath the surface to uncover what has caused unhealthy communication. Our therapist specialize in working with all types of couples in every type of relationship. We work with LGBTQ+ couples as well as couples in non-traditional relationships. Please contact us for more info

I feel that in order for a couple to succeed in their relationship, there must be mutual respect and open communication. The vows "Love, Honor and Chrerish" and imperative in creating a loving and positive relationship that will overcome life's obstacles. It is my role to help you learn and foster these tools to incorporate them into your daily lives.

Sometimes we are so wrapped up in our anger, that we forget the reasons we fell in love. We may feel hopeless about our relationship, or may have even experienced or engaged in infidelity. If you are experiencing discord in your relationship and would like to find your way back to peace and happiness with your partner, I am here to help. By exploring your relationship vision, each of your needs, and what has caused you to become disconnected in the past, I can help you to map out a happy future together. I would love to meet you and hear your story. Call me today.

Relationships take work... isn't that what everyone says? We take a unique approach when working with couples. Our clinicans have in depth training on traditional couples talk therapy as well as sex therapy techniques. We can also incorporate couples yoga therapy. One of our providers is also bring credentialed in sex therapy which us often times a concern in couples work. We work with new couples on level setting expectations and communication and learning about each other. We work with premarital individuals and groups of couples prior to tying the knot. We also work with seasoned couples struggling with long standing resentments, infedility, loss, and other concerns.

It wasn't always this way. There was a time you looked forward to being with each other. You both trusted and enjoyed each other's company. You felt understood and accepted for being yourself. In couple's counseling, Hal offers you the opportunity to find the hidden strengths in the heart and soul of your relationship. Hal has helped hundreds of couples to improve communication and increase trust. Hal is very well respected and experienced in couple's counseling. In addition, he is a published author and was invited to appear on David Letterman's Late Night television program. Hal's schedule is flexible and appointments are available on evenings and weekends. Call Hal at (516) 439-4282

What are the most common couples' issues? If you are thinking "communication, conflict, sex, money, child rearing" you are correct. However, most therapists will go after the symptom on each side of the couple fence thinking that the way to effective change is by getting each party to "work" on their respective "issue". Many times the parties don’t agree but comply. Imagine if you could align the unconscious brains of a couple and stop the "working on your issues" part that has become so popular in therapy settings? Contact kevin@kevinflemingphd.com to learn how! Or call 877-606-6161. DR. FLEMING'S NEW RELATIONSHIP/COUPLES INTENSIVES. www.kevinflemingphd.com/marriage-couples-retreats.php

I use the Gottman Method of couples counseling for couples, whether you're partners or married, this approach has been backed by 40 years of research to be successful. It includes an extensive intake process since each couple is unique, a feedback session, and from there specified exercises and tools to target the areas of your relationship that can be improved.