Great Couples Counseling in Santee, CA. Therapy to heal relationships.

FRUSTRATED ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIPS? Stressed out about what to do next? Are you considering breakup or divorce but really want to give it a last chance? Would you like to take one more look before making any permanent decision? I can help you gain clarity, confidence in your decision making in regards to a very important matter in your life through a brief and focused counseling process.

I am an Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist (EFT) which is the most empirically validated and proven couples therapy to date - helping couples go from distress to a more secure, lasting love, which after a 2 year follow-up, couples report a happier and more fulfilling relationship. I help couples understand their painful disconnection that creates distance and frustration, learn to be more clear in their communication and needs, helping couples begin to heal and repair rifts to bring about a deeper felt sense of security within their relationship. I desire couples to experience with one another that they matter, that they are cared for, they are unconditionally loved by their partner.

My approach to working with couples focuses on creating more connected, intentional, and fulfilling relationships. In therapy, we look at the patterns that keep partners stuck in conflict, distance, avoidance, resentment, or disconnection. We work on communication, honesty, repair, trust, and intimacy. As a Certified Sex Therapist, I also help couples talk directly and respectfully about desire, sexual concerns, sexless relationships, and intimacy.