Great Couples Counseling in Churchville, NY. Therapy to heal relationships.

Sometimes couples need an outside perspective to resolve conflict. We will work together to help you regain the emotional connection with your partner. We will work on improving communication skills to decrease the sadness, frustration and anger and bring back the happiness and joy in your relationship. I provide a safe and comfortable and non judgmental atmosphere.

What are the most common couples' issues? If you are thinking "communication, conflict, sex, money, child rearing" you are correct. However, most therapists will go after the symptom on each side of the couple fence thinking that the way to effective change is by getting each party to "work" on their respective "issue". Many times the parties don’t agree but comply. Imagine if you could align the unconscious brains of a couple and stop the "working on your issues" part that has become so popular in therapy settings? Contact kevin@kevinflemingphd.com to learn how! Or call 877-606-6161. DR. FLEMING'S NEW RELATIONSHIP/COUPLES INTENSIVES. www.kevinflemingphd.com/marriage-couples-retreats.php

Did your partner have an affair? Lost Love? Control Issues. Relationships can be saved if both partners are willing to work in therapy and the counselor is skilled with working with all personality types. Chris Colasuonno has provided couples, relationship and marriage counseling to hundreds of clients offering a direct but safe approach. Generally, most issues start and end with effective communication that Chris helps each partner work on. Chris works on lowering the cycle of arguing and analyzes the contributory factors that cause the partners to argue. Many times the past issues come into or cause future arguments Allow Chris to build trust, love, and communication in your relationship.

Does something seem off in your relationship? Getting ready to tie the knot? Have you had communication breakdown after breakdown? Do you need a safe, neutral zone to mediate concerns? My practice is passionate about helping in this area. Starting couples work can build better communications, boundaries, respect, and overcome traumas to the relationship.

Relationships bring unique challenges when trying to blend two separate complicated lives. Understanding the complexities of relationship dynamics and what each person brings to the table allows for change to occur. Strategies for better communication, healthy boundaries and self-responsibility is the place to start. Relationships will challenge the hardiest of souls as two storylines with the accompanying strengths, challenges, fears, insecurities, doubts, and dreams of each person. And it is here in the intimacy of relationship where those two stories unfold, intertwine and get worked out into a new story to be told.

Objectivity can help level the playing field, especially when a couple is struggling to get it right! Couples find the spark again through empathy, great communication, and allowing a co-pilot to be a guiding light through troubled times. I use a series of approaches to help reach your goals of reduced dysfunction in your relationship which include cognitive behavioral, person centered, and solution focused methods.

Sometimes we are so wrapped up in our anger, that we forget the reasons we fell in love. We may feel hopeless about our relationship, or may have even experienced or engaged in infidelity. If you are experiencing discord in your relationship and would like to find your way back to peace and happiness with your partner, I am here to help. By exploring your relationship vision, each of your needs, and what has caused you to become disconnected in the past, I can help you to map out a happy future together. I would love to meet you and hear your story. Call me today.