Great Couples Counseling in Southside Place, TX. Therapy to heal relationships.

Experience transformative growth and enhanced communication through my unique approach to couples counseling. Tailored specifically to address relationship dynamics, my sessions offer a supportive space where partners can navigate challenges, strengthen bonds, and cultivate deeper understanding. By focusing on individual needs within the partnership, couples can unlock newfound clarity, resolve conflicts, and build a stronger foundation for lasting harmony. Embrace the benefits of personalized guidance and unlock the potential for a fulfilling and thriving relationship journey.

There are countless models of healthy romantic relationships, from monogamous to polyamorous, and unique variations between partners. The scripts for dating and longterm relationships of our parents’ generations may not be applicable to your relationship, and there is no formal education in how to be a good partner or how to identify unhealthy relationships. But there is psychological research that shows that effective communication, emotional openness, intimacy, and other factors contribute to healthy relationships. Creating these conditions are skills that can be learned. I practice brief humanistic and emotion-focused therapy (EFT) to help my LGBTQ and hetero clients learn these skills.

As humans, we are relational beings. We all want to connect to others and have fulfilling relationships. This is why we understand that relationship problems can be very painful for all involved. When relationships are going well, it feels like your whole world is better. When your relationship is struggling, it feels like your entire world is crumbling. We are extensively trained in couples work and sex therapy. We can work with all parts of the relationship to help heal unhealthy conflict cycles and help build connection and attachment.

“Stop trying to change me!” The complaint often targeted at a partner during a heated discussion. My response, in couples therapy, is often, “Of course you are being asked to change.” Allow me to explain… In relationships, we go from “I” and “you” to “we”. As “we”, we become better people; hopefully. We have a responsibility to ourselves and to the relationship. The intention is to not “lose ourselves” in a relationship, however, a healthy partnership challenges growth and change. In couples therapy, my approach is to target areas of growth, and yes, change, for the individual and couple. The “change” is discussed, agreed, and mutually beneficial.

What are the most common couples' issues? If you are thinking "communication, conflict, sex, money, child rearing" you are correct. However, most therapists will go after the symptom on each side of the couple fence thinking that the way to effective change is by getting each party to "work" on their respective "issue". Many times the parties don’t agree but comply. Imagine if you could align the unconscious brains of a couple and stop the "working on your issues" part that has become so popular in therapy settings? Contact kevin@kevinflemingphd.com to learn how! Or call 877-606-6161. DR. FLEMING'S NEW RELATIONSHIP/COUPLES INTENSIVES. www.kevinflemingphd.com/marriage-couples-retreats.php

Couples therapy allows two people to come together in a different space - the therapy room - to talk about issues, problems, concerns and successes in a new and more beneficial way. Communication is a key concept for me in the therapy room, along with the processes that support our communication. As a couple's therapist, I will listen to the words and phrases that you use with one another, invite you to consider even a slightly different way of presenting your feelings and thoughts in order to be heard differently. I will work with each person in the couple to assure that they feel heard and understood, hopefully deepening your understanding of your partner.

Let me guess. One partner feels alone and like they don't matter and the other feels they are always being criticized and can't get anything right. The more one asks for the other to show up, the more the partner disappears physically and emotionally. You both bicker and fight and the idea of sitting and just hanging out seems elusive, if not impossible. Something like this? Often we crave connection but are blocked by the pain and the history that gets in the way. Small fights about little things become battles that highlight our struggle to have our basic relational needs met. I can help you get under the bickering to the parts crying out for connection- to an enriching relationship.

Couples face an array of issues in our modern world. I will work with you to maximize your communication in order to have your best relationship as a couple. We will look at unhealthy patterns that may be affecting your relationship. I am committed to helping you reach your goals both individually and as a couple. Together we will help you understand what's important to each of you as a couple.

Are you feeling lonely in your own marriage? Disrespected? Misunderstood? It doesn’t have to stay this way. Far too often, high-achieving men feel disrespected and lonely within their own marriages. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I help men and their wives to rediscover the incredible value they bring to the marriage, and help them negotiate a hopeful path forward. I will help you identify destructive patterns in your marriage and provide healthier alternatives. I’ll help you improve communication, learn to fight fair, and increase understanding and connection. While it’s not easy work, there is hope. If given the chance, I would be honored to help you fight for your marriage.

Relationships devastated by infidelity, pornography, addiction, lies and betrayal can feel hopeless. My personal and professional experience has taught me relationships can overcome this if both parties are motivated to get help and do the work. It takes time and is not easy. Patience and empathy, especially from the injuring party, are crucial. I can show you how healing is possible.

I have over 30 years experience as a licensed Psychologist and Marriage Counselor specializing in working with couples. I am active and directive and have the goal that after the very first session you will have new tools you can use to improve your communication and conflict resolution. You will learn what does and does not work in relationships.

Many couples seek counseling when they are experiencing conflict in their relationship. The most common reasons couples come to counseling is due to difficulity in communication, money and intimacy. Most of us learn to communicate by watching our own parents who may not have been the best teachers. I teach couples the common styles of communication (ie. often one person want to work out the issue immediately and the other person needs time to think and process the situation which can lead to distress). I help couples learn to communicate in a way that they can be heard and understood. Communication is also key to express intimacy needs and to get them met in a way that is mutually satisfying

My approach to helping couples includes an exploration of patterns of communication and whether interactions are considered healthy or unhealthy. Each partner's family of origin would be explored as well as their perspectives on issues within the relationship. I therapeutic approach utilizes the empirically based Gottman Method. The Gottman Method encompasses 40+ years of research on couples and what makes them successful.