Great Couples Counseling in Murrieta, CA. Therapy to heal relationships.

When the storms of life hit your marriage, you can turn against each other, turn away from each other, or "go back to back" to stand with each other against the stress and obstacles of life. I specialize in working with couples in crisis and will help you repair the damaging effects that secrets or resentments have had on your trust and attraction for each other. Our goal will be to rebuild your marriage to "go the distance," recapture the romance, and strengthen your marriage bond so that you can confidently face together what lies ahead. Ask me about my package deal for premarital counseling- I want to help you start your new life together in a healthy way!

My Undergraduate degree was in Communication. My Graduate degree was in Counseling. So...I am BIG on improving communication! I will help you learn very effective ways to communicate and get more of what you want and not be controlled by others. So many times both people want the same thing! But the way males, females and different personalities think and verbalize is frequently very different! With my 20 years of experience I will show you how to argue less,be less defensive and know how to deescalate things very easily! I 'll help you have noticeably more peace and intimacy and get rid of the chaotic underlying issues . I'll also show you how to have freedom from any past issues.

There are countless models of healthy romantic relationships, from monogamous to polyamorous, and unique variations between partners. The scripts for dating and longterm relationships of our parents’ generations may not be applicable to your relationship, and there is no formal education in how to be a good partner or how to identify unhealthy relationships. But there is psychological research that shows that effective communication, emotional openness, intimacy, and other factors contribute to healthy relationships. Creating these conditions are skills that can be learned. I practice brief humanistic and emotion-focused therapy (EFT) to help my LGBTQ and hetero clients learn these skills.

What are the most common couples' issues? If you are thinking "communication, conflict, sex, money, child rearing" you are correct. However, most therapists will go after the symptom on each side of the couple fence thinking that the way to effective change is by getting each party to "work" on their respective "issue". Many times the parties don’t agree but comply. Imagine if you could align the unconscious brains of a couple and stop the "working on your issues" part that has become so popular in therapy settings? Contact kevin@kevinflemingphd.com to learn how! Or call 877-606-6161. DR. FLEMING'S NEW RELATIONSHIP/COUPLES INTENSIVES. www.kevinflemingphd.com/marriage-couples-retreats.php