Anger Management and Counseling in Applewood, CO.

Anger can rob you of so much in your life and relationships. You can learn how to take control of your anger so that you have better relationships with others and a more peaceful life. Our approach is to help you recognize what sets your anger off and work through it so that it loses its power. We will also work on heading your anger off at the pass so that it can't rule your life. You will be less irritable, more patient, and free from the loss of control that anger invariably gives you.

When we're feeling angry, there's usually other emotions at play underneath the surface that are begging (maybe literally screaming from the rooftops) to be recognized. Feelings such as despair, loneliness, or debilitating fear are often masked as anger because it's so much less vulnerable to blow-up on a loved one than cry and express your pain to them. Therapy can help you uncover the reasons you feel angry and process the pain you've been holding in for so long.

Grey Matters International and the work of Kevin J. Fleming, Ph.D approaches issues of anger management in a very humane yet fresh perspective. You see, anger is a normal emotion but it is the valence (intensity) as well as the coupling choice of what one does with this that is the problem. Telling someone to "not" do it or modifying behavior with a trite psychological plan that only breeds a compliant response is not the way to change anger. Brainwave optimization is a new cutting edge technology that allows one to rewire circuitry responsible for reactivity driving the anger. Contact Grey Matters International, Inc now at kevin@kevinflemingphd.com or 877-606-6161.

I don't offer traditional anger management therapy, but believe that by using mindfulness tools, practicing meditation, learning how to regulate emotions and accepting what is out of our control one can overcome issues with not being able to manage their anger. If we don't properly process and deal with what's bothering us it is going to end up coming out sideways. This make take the form of depression or anxiety or anger, but that energy will seek an outlet somewhere. I believe we can work together to learn to process these difficult emotions so that you don't have to act out in anger.

I can help you with your anger and resentment towards your spouse or partner, towards your children or parents, and with other significant individuals in your life. I will help give you an internal thermometer for understanding your anger and what level of anger is building inside of you. I will help you to discover the true cause of your anger, provides steps for coping with your anger, and create solutions for the problems in your life and relationships.

Anger is often a misunderstood and/or criticized emotion. Anger can be a source of destruction, but it can also be an emotion for healthy boundaries, balance, and safety. I teach people how to recognize and understand the source of their anger and how to decrease anger that is destructive or overwhelming. When anger is properly channeled is can instigate healthy change. Anger can also signal underlying emotions such as grief, fear, or shame. It is important to learn how to sift through these different layers in order to have healthy intimate relationships. Through a therapy that feels safe and attuned, it becomes easier to feel difficult feelings and to express what is needed.

Anger management counseling can help to identify stressors and learn the steps to stay calm in the face of anger. The goal is to handle tense situations in more constructive and positive ways by reducing the emotional and physical arousal that anger can cause. It will provide the tools to take back your life and resolve the triggers that result in unplanned anger reactions.

In my experience as an EMDR therapist, I pay close attention to the links between past and present. I’ve seen time and time again how unhealed emotional wounds resurface and come out sideways. While anger management can provide helpful strategies, they don’t get to the heart of the issue. Often, anger is what we see on the surface, but the real problem is what’s underneath the anger. Negative beliefs like “I’m helpless,” “I’m out of control,” and “I’m a failure,” start to bubble up, and anger comes to the rescue. It can get us in trouble, but at least it gets the blood pumping. With research-proven EMDR therapy, I help men heal anger at its source so it doesn’t have to be managed.

Anger can come from a few different things; your boundaries aren't being respected, a catalyzing energy telling you that things need to change, or old wounds from childhood getting touched by current interactions with others. Anger is a signal to you to reclaim your personal power; a fire giving you the fuel you need to create change. I'm here to help you get to the root of the anger and to self-regulate through anger and other difficult emotions, so you can show up as more calm and grounded in your life.

Do you feel like anger is destroying your relationships, work or happiness? Counseling can help you manage your anger and repair your relationships. I invite you to read more about how anger management counseling can help you here: www.foundationscounselingllc.com/anger-management-counseling.php. Then, call to schedule your free consultation. With counseling locations in Loveland, Fort Collins and Windsor, help is close by. Get started today!

True Happiness and Stability Stems from the Quality of our Significant Relationships! I provide therapy for children, adolescents, individuals, elders, couples, and families. I focus on people's strengths and possibilities while addressing their real life difficulties. I provide a wide variety of evidence-based treatment approaches. Which means that all the therapy that I implement is highly researched and therefore, proven to work, if followed correctly. I believe in a holistic approach to the therapeutic process that incorporates biological, psychological, social, and spiritual dimensions empowering a person or family towards mastering life to its fullest.

Angry people tend to demand things, whether it's fairness, appreciation, agreement, or just the willingness to do things their way. We are all hurt, disappointed, and frustrated when we don't get what we want, but don't let disappointment turn into anger. Some people use anger as a way to avoid feeling hurt, but that doesn't make the hurt go away. In my practice I teach clients the skills needed to restructure their overly dramatic thoughts into thoughts that are more reasonable. For instance, it's natural to get defensive when you're criticized, but don't fight back. Instead, listen to what's beneath the words. Perhaps the real message is that your partner feels neglected and unloved.

Anger in and of itself is not a probelm. The emotion is there to tell you something about how an event affects you. Sometimes our anger gets out of control: perhaps you are in jeopardy of losing a job or relationship because of it. If that's the case and you are dealing with unmanageable anger, I can work with you to uncover why you are experiencing disruptive anger. I will equip you with practical skills which, when used can result in decreased anger and associated unwanted behaviors. If appropriate, I can use EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) to assist in your emotion regulation. There is hope!

Our counselors strive to combine time-tested therapeutic techniques with the latest in psychotherapy research to provide you with the best and most effective anger management techniques available. We have several counselors on staff to ensure that you will always be able to access someone who specializes in your needs without waiting. Do you know what it will take to achieve your optimal life? If not, it's okay, we're here to help. (970) 227-2770

Anger management is about impulse control. I can help you learn to experience and explore your angry and violent impulses without ACTING off of them. Angry feelings flow naturally from a great many life situations (e.g. competition, losses, personal violations, insults, dismissals, etc.). We usually do not recognize that our old unfinished business is behind our aggressive temper and behavior. I can help you identify your personal triggers, move away from the person who is setting you off in the moment, and work on your infinished business in private healthy ways.

I offer mindfulness techniques to become aware of our precursor sensations or behaviors so we might self regulate before we lose control of our anger. We will develop on understanding of how to prepare for stressful circumstances or slow down the escalating process as well as ways to stop once escalated. We will work creatively together to find what works best for you.

Anger is a lively emotion and I frequently hear "I don't want to feel angry". That's pretty common, it's not a feel good emotion. It is, however, an informative emotion, and part of the human experience. My approach to anger management counseling first explores how anger shows up in your life, what were you taught about anger, how was anger shown to you, and how would you like to be experienced in your relationships. Skill are a fundamental part of anger management including: Relationship skills, communication, thought and behavior modifications, boundaries, mindfulness and relaxation techniques. Anger management counseling is interactive process in session and provides homework to practice.

Anger can sometimes feel like a mystery. Where does it come from and why does it explode so suddenly? I love to walk with my clients through the process of discovering the roots of their anger. So many emotions tend to hide underneath anger! I also focus on anger management techniques to help you predict your anger and give you tools to manage it.

You will learn strategies, develop skills, and acquire tools to manage your anger. As an anger management therapist, I will help you understand the reason why anger exists. We’ll develop a system to keep your anger in check. I’ll help you break habits that are causing the biggest problems with your anger. You will learn how to communicate through your anger better allowing you to maintain healthy relationships. During our sessions, I will help you recognize how you get in your own way of having a peaceful life. As you talk, I will point out the thoughts and behaviors that are keeping you unhappy. In the end, you will learn how to manage your anger from now until forever.

Dr. Bruce Rumsey is one of the top facilitators in Colorado having worked with over 9,000 groups where the dominant focus was helping individuals regulate their emotions, particularly anger, in a manner that provided insight to the factors driving their anger. In addition, Dr. Rumsey provided tools that helped client not just resolve their anger, but resolve their anger appropriately. If you or someone you know is struggling with appropriate anger management, there are answers and tools to help resolve this destructive pattern. Fights Healthy choices, communication, and conflict resolution require appropriate anger management skills, and we will cover these as part of our work together

When anger gets the best of you, you feel out of control and unable to stop your impulses. I will provide a supportive space where you can learn new ways to feel and experience your emotions without becoming explosive. I will help you to recognize your own patterns of behavior so that you don't get to your tipping point as often. We can discuss the other emotions that your anger might be covering up so that you can feel more regulated in all areas of your life, not just with your anger.

Do you get so angry sometimes that you end up doing or saying things you wish you could take back? Do you feel like you are stuck in a rut, with angry responses becoming the most common way you react to people you love? We all feel angry sometimes, but it's great to realize when it's affecting your life in ways you never wanted. We will help you learn to expand the feelings you have, sort through any shame or helplessness that are driving the anger, and teach you how you can use your normal angry feelings in ways that are productive. You don't have to feel like anger owns you any more.

Everyone gets angry; at another driver, at your partner, at your kids. This issue is not that you get angry, it's how you handle that anger.Too often we deal with our anger by yelling, hitting or withholding. I will help you look at the root of your anger, help you reframe it and give you positive skills to help you cope with the anger you feel. I will help you identify your "buttons" and explore a different way to respond when those "buttons are pushed"