Anger Management and Counseling in Arvada, CO.

Grey Matters International and the work of Kevin J. Fleming, Ph.D approaches issues of anger management in a very humane yet fresh perspective. You see, anger is a normal emotion but it is the valence (intensity) as well as the coupling choice of what one does with this that is the problem. Telling someone to "not" do it or modifying behavior with a trite psychological plan that only breeds a compliant response is not the way to change anger. Brainwave optimization is a new cutting edge technology that allows one to rewire circuitry responsible for reactivity driving the anger. Contact Grey Matters International, Inc now at kevin@kevinflemingphd.com or 877-606-6161.

When anger gets the best of you, you feel out of control and unable to stop your impulses. I will provide a supportive space where you can learn new ways to feel and experience your emotions without becoming explosive. I will help you to recognize your own patterns of behavior so that you don't get to your tipping point as often. We can discuss the other emotions that your anger might be covering up so that you can feel more regulated in all areas of your life, not just with your anger.

I offer mindfulness techniques to become aware of our precursor sensations or behaviors so we might self regulate before we lose control of our anger. We will develop on understanding of how to prepare for stressful circumstances or slow down the escalating process as well as ways to stop once escalated. We will work creatively together to find what works best for you.

Anger can come from a few different things; your boundaries aren't being respected, a catalyzing energy telling you that things need to change, or old wounds from childhood getting touched by current interactions with others. Anger is a signal to you to reclaim your personal power; a fire giving you the fuel you need to create change. I'm here to help you get to the root of the anger and to self-regulate through anger and other difficult emotions, so you can show up as more calm and grounded in your life.

Mariah Severud approaches anger management with the belief that anger itself is not the problem, but rather a signal pointing to deeper emotions, unmet needs, or boundary violations. She helps clients understand the function of their anger while developing healthier, more effective ways to express it. Using techniques from Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and skills-based interventions, Mariah teaches practical tools for emotional regulation, communication, and impulse control. Clients benefit from increased self-awareness, improved relationships, and the ability to respond thoughtfully instead of react impulsively, allowing them to feel more empowered and in control of their lives.

Griffin supports clients in understanding and managing anger by providing a safe, compassionate space to explore the emotions beneath the surface. Through expressive arts, mindfulness, and person-centered techniques, she helps individuals identify triggers, build emotional awareness, and develop healthier ways to express and cope with anger. Her creative and supportive approach encourages self-reflection and empowers clients to transform anger into a source of insight, resilience, and personal growth, rather than something to be feared or suppressed.

Anger is a natural response to many situations in life that cause feelings of frustration. If you are experiencing anger that persists after situations have passed or become easily irritated in circumstances that would not usually warrant anger, then counseling may be right for you. Sometimes we are unable to process the emotions that cause our anger, and we lack the tools to improve our responses to the circumstances that trigger our anger. By talking about these feelings, Jamie Smiertelny can assist in the understanding of the reasons behind them and help you work toward better communication and responses to events without anger.

Gayla Joseph approaches anger counseling with understanding and curiosity, recognizing anger as a natural emotion that often signals unmet needs or unresolved pain. She helps clients identify triggers, underlying emotions, and thought patterns that contribute to reactive behaviors. In a supportive, nonjudgmental environment, Gayla works collaboratively to build healthier coping strategies, improve emotional regulation, and strengthen communication skills. Clients benefit from increased self-awareness, greater confidence in managing strong emotions, and the ability to respond to life’s challenges in ways that support healthier relationships and personal well-being.

Our counselors strive to combine time-tested therapeutic techniques with the latest in psychotherapy research to provide you with the best and most effective anger management techniques available. We have several counselors on staff to ensure that you will always be able to access someone who specializes in your needs without waiting. Do you know what it will take to achieve your optimal life? If not, it's okay, we're here to help. (970) 227-2770

Cody places a significant emphasis on anger management in his practice. Acknowledging anger as a natural emotion, he underscores the importance of effectively managing its expression for overall interpersonal well-being. Cody creates a safe and supportive space where individuals can openly explore the origins of their anger, identify triggers, and cultivate constructive coping mechanisms. Using tailored anger management approaches such as cognitive-behavioral therapy and mindfulness techniques, he guides clients in comprehending and regulating their responses to anger. His goal is to empower clients with the tools and insights needed to navigate and manage their emotions more effectively.

Delaney approaches counseling for anger and anger management with empathy, curiosity, and a nonjudgmental mindset, recognizing that anger is often a secondary emotion rooted in hurt, fear, stress, or unmet needs. She works with clients to better understand the underlying triggers and patterns connected to their anger while helping them develop practical tools for emotional regulation and healthy expression. Through increased self-awareness, coping strategies, and communication skills, clients learn how to respond rather than react in difficult moments. Delaney also supports clients in building resilience and strengthening relationships, empowering them to manage anger in ways that align with their values and long-term goals.

Margibel Vazquez offers compassionate and effective counseling for anger management, helping clients understand the underlying emotions driving their anger. She provides a safe, nonjudgmental space to explore triggers and develop healthy coping strategies. Using evidence-based approaches such as Emotionally Focused Therapy, Internal Family Systems, and mindfulness, Margibel supports clients in building emotional regulation skills, improving communication, and transforming anger into constructive energy. Clients gain greater self-awareness, control, and healthier relationships through this process.

In anger management counseling, Madi helps clients view anger as a meaningful emotion rather than a problem to suppress. In a supportive, nonjudgmental space, she guides clients in exploring the underlying triggers and emotions that contribute to reactive patterns. Using a trauma-informed, strength-based approach and practical tools from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), she supports clients in building emotional awareness, improving regulation skills, and communicating more effectively. Clients learn to respond with intention, set healthy boundaries, and strengthen their relationships and self-control.