Marriage counseling that Heals in Montecito, CA. Restore Your Relationship.

Though we are not licensed marriage counselors, Grey Matters International, Inc. provides cutting edge brain optimization and rebalancing technology to better align the minds of partners to reduce conflict, increase hope---for the brain has the final word on change.

Each relationship is unique! With time and effort, you will develop healthier habits and and stronger connections.

Rooted in attachment, neurobiology, and client-centered work, I use experiential methods to help those who feel disconnected from others and themselves find the link playfully back to being in relationship. I serve children, adolescents, and adult individuals.

Our most intimate partnerships have the potential to give us the greatest joy and also the greatest pain. Working to regain happiness in a relationship provides us with the opportunity to change unexamined, limiting communication styles, behaviors and beliefs and can b

Premarital Therapy is the most requested form of couples therapy in my practice. Addressing issues that often don't develop until after marriage and providing conflict resolution tools to the couple to support healthy communication assists reducing future conflicts.

I enjoy working with couples helping them to work through conflict and restore positive feelings of love and connection like they used to have. I help couples listen and communicate better with each other, feel safe and help them work through their problems together.

A healthy marriage takes work. Therapy will reach the heart of the issues and begin the process of restoration. Let's get started.

A healthy marriage takes work. Therapy will reach the heart of the issues and begin the process of restoration. Let's get started.

I Show Couple How To: *Move From Rejected To More Connected *Reduce Criticism & Increase Acceptance & Validation *Feel More Empowered, Calm & In Control *Decrease Fear & Increase Trust & Safety *Reduce Fighting & Arguing & Increase Understanding, Kindness & Compass

I specialized in couple's work because I wanted to understand the building blocks of a successful relationship. Luckily, anyone can learn to be a good partner. We all long to be deeply understood. I have concrete tools to get you there.