Marriage counseling that Heals in Prunedale, CA. Restore Your Relationship.

I believe who we are, how we regard ourselves & others, & how we view the world comes from our earliest relationships and experiences. Understanding the impact of these, & how it shows up today, allows the ability to change & heal within.

We want connection- a space to be vulnerable and truly seen. But emotional intimacy is risky, and that scares us, especially with a difficult history! Instead of being vulnerable, we build up walls to protect us. Let's break down the walls and build a loving connection.

We are all made for relationship and marriage is one of the most special relationships we aspire to in our culture. I can help you work through relational challenges to improve your marriage and experience the relationship you and your partner desire!

When working with couples and families I hold the space for each person in the room to provide the safety to discuss even difficult issues. I use IFS, and EMDR to deepen each individual's experiences when beneficial. My approach is based on family systems theory.

If you're tired of fighting, perhaps feeling ignored, or even worried about whether your marriage is going to survive . . . all you really want is a happy, contented relationship where you feel fulfilled and alive, I'd like to help. I'd love to hear your story.

Marriages can be saved with commitment to counseling and diligent work. I've helped hundreds of couples over 20 years of experience. I use a practical/spiritual approach regarding communication, marital needs, intimacy, trust, healing. Give me a call!

A healthy marriage takes work. Therapy will reach the heart of the issues and begin the process of restoration. Let's get started.

Through questioning, writing and role plays I'll help you decide to stay or separate. Exercises will identify negative beliefs that foster bad attitudes, codependency, bad communication and ineffective behavior. I'll help you get the love you want.