Marriage counseling that Heals in Redlands, CA. Restore Your Relationship.

We are all made for relationship and marriage is one of the most special relationships we aspire to in our culture. I can help you work through relational challenges to improve your marriage and experience the relationship you and your partner desire!

We want connection- a space to be vulnerable and truly seen. But emotional intimacy is risky, and that scares us, especially with a difficult history! Instead of being vulnerable, we build up walls to protect us. Let's break down the walls and build a loving connection.

Dr. Wheeler offers couples TOOLS to identfy the PATTERNS that cause "walls", turn off desire and attraction, keep communication stuck. TOOLS give relationship growth ore focus and direction than just "talk therapy". Raise your relationship to a higher level of love!

As a Marriage Therapist, I help couples to learn new communication skills and conflict resolution. The goal is to have both partners find ways to get their needs met within the relationship. Counseling can enrich and strengthen the marriage bond.

Using an Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy approach integrated with the Gottman Method, I help couples achieve thier relationship goals. Improving communication, moving on from infidelity, and establishing greater trust and intimacy are frequent outcomes of my work.

A healthy marriage takes work. Therapy will reach the heart of the issues and begin the process of restoration. Let's get started.

Getting into a relationship is the fun part; staying in it may be the hardest thing you ever do! Let's work together to find answers.

After rescuing some broken marriages, I believe that anyone can do it as long as you're willing to hope and believe. I use solution-focused and experiential, emotion-focused approaches, which are evidence-based. I respect the value of marriage and commitment.