Great Couples Counseling in Glendale, CO. Therapy to heal relationships.

Couples counseling helps partners better understand one another, interrupt unhelpful patterns, and communicate more effectively during conflict or disconnection. Through a supportive, structured process, couples often develop stronger emotional awareness, improved communication skills, and tools for repairing trust. Over time, many experience greater closeness, increased empathy, and a more secure, collaborative relationship—allowing them to navigate challenges with clarity, respect, and mutual support.

I work with couples to increase responsiveness, trust, and intimacy in relationships. I help partners see how each of their behaviors impact and influence their partner's reactions and how the combination of these reactions lead to self-perpetuating cycles that continue to hurt the relationship. Together we work on skills to decrease blame and defensiveness, increase understanding and responsiveness, and create healing. Premarital counseling also available, and includes important research-based information and insight regarding how reasons for marrying may have implications for the success of the union.

Is your relationship in trouble? If constant fights, distance, or affairs are threatening to tear you apart, let us help you. We are highly trained and specialize in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy. We offer free consultations, evening hours, and convenient online booking that you can use right now. Our sessions are a full 75-minutes, so we can get to the heart of the matter. We see Lesbian couples and LGBT relationships, premarital couples, and more. Set up a 15-minute introductory phone call to discuss our practice and your options today.

Is your relationship a mess? Are you trying to solve your issues, but end up arguing all the time instead? We are couples counseling specialists who are passionate about helping you communicate better, reduce conflict, increase emotional and sexual intimacy, heal hurts such as affairs, recover together from an addiction, and reconnect with joy. We use cutting edge tools and couples counseling methods to help you get the love you want!

Many couples approach therapy as a resource for renewing their emotional connection or to deepen intimacy in their relationship. I work with all types of couples on a variety of intimacy & communication struggles. My approach is direct, empathic and supportive. My goal is to facilitate change in a safe and trusting environment. I believe that collaborative work with my clients facilitates a strong therapeutic relationship which offers positive results.

I work with dating couples, married couples, and family couples (mother/daughter & father/son). Together we work to find greater awareness in who we are in relationships. We look at our own personality and experiences, other's personalities and experiences, and the relationship created within that. We identify boundaries, expectations, styles of living and loving, along with other personality factors that all play a vital role in relationships. We learn to come together rather than pull apart through our differences.

What are the most common couples' issues? If you are thinking "communication, conflict, sex, money, child rearing" you are correct. However, most therapists will go after the symptom on each side of the couple fence thinking that the way to effective change is by getting each party to "work" on their respective "issue". Many times the parties dont agree but comply. Imagine if you could align the unconscious brains of a couple and stop the "working on your issues" part that has become so popular in therapy settings? Contact kevin@kevinflemingphd.com to learn how! Or call 877-606-6161 DR. FLEMING'S NEW RELATIONSHIP/COUPLES INTENSIVES www.kevinflemingphd.com/marriage-couples-retreats.php

Our intimate relationships can be our greatest sources of joy and pain. When conflict and turmoil become overwhelming, it can be difficult to rediscover the connection and love that drew you together. By addressing past hurts and developing better understanding and relational skills, you can rekindle that sense of intimacy and connection that you desire in your relationship.

From pre-marital to your silver anniversary and beyond! I've helped numerous couples get their relationship back on track and grow the successful marriage they've dreamed of. I am a SYMBIS Certified Facilitator (Saving Your Marriage Before it Starts) and trained in the world's foremost method of couple's therapy- Emotionally Focused Therapy. If you're facing, infidelity, parenting challenges, communication struggles or maybe you're feeling like your spouse's roommate and less like their special someone, I want to help. Together, we'll work toward shaping a future you both want!

No matter the type of partnership or relationship you are in, they take attention and adaptation flourish. With all of the various priorities and obligations, sometimes our relationships take a back seat. My goal as a therapist is to reestablish connection by helping both partners learn more about themselves, their partner, the partnership, and defining how you both want to move forward with clarity and respect.

When I provide couples counseling I begin with why you were attracted to each other. Once we focus on the positive, we can figure out what got lost that brought you to seek out counseling. I have helped couples in traditional and not traditional relationships. I focus on pre-marital and LGBTQ relationships. Monogamous or open relationships, whatever your preference I can offer a supportive environment to promote a positive change. Perhaps you are not struggling but are looking for a little change, I would believe I can help facilitate that change.

Every relationship has its own nervous system; it's a living story between two people. I help couples slow down enough to notice what happens beneath the arguments, while building a toolkit of emotional awareness, communication skills, and repair work. Through emotionally focused and body-based work, we'll uncover what each partner’s nervous system is trying to protect. Mindfulness slows reactivity; curiosity invites repair. The goal isn’t perfect communication, but rather learning to cultivate an environment of emotional safety that can hold honest conflict.

It's natural for conflict and other issues to arise in a couple since you're two separate people with your own histories and upbringings coming together in relationship. The key is being able to self-regulate through difficult emotions, and communicate about what's happening effectively with your partner. When you can both stay calm, you'll be able to find new solutions to the issues that have come up in your relationship. I'm here to support you in identifying the issues causing conflict in your relationship, getting to the root of them, communicating effectively about them, and coming up with solutions that work.