Great Couples Counseling in St. Petersburg, FL. Therapy to heal relationships.

Wanting a more intimate, loving relationship...Going from one unsatisfying relationship to another...experiencing conflicts and distance...is the spark gone....crushed by betrayal...made a mistake you are finding difficult to mend...pornography pulling your relationship apart... not “feeling in love” or “feeling loved” anymore...can't seem to keep a relationship alive...I can help. I have over 30 years of working with couples of all ages and stages. I can teach you how to resolve conflict, gain or restore a loving relationship that can last a lifetime.

In couples counseling, a couple gets an opportunity to do something they rarely, if ever, do: discuss their problems with an impartial third party in a neutral environment which is not a part of their daily life. The counselor's participation adds a new perspective to the dynamic and begins to show the couple what they can accomplish, or maybe used to accomplish, but which has been undiscovered or neglected. My approach combines in-the-moment processing with ongoing feedback, presenting of relationship tools, and communication skills training, according to the couple's needs. Affection and communication are often the key, as they are often the foundation of every relationship.

What are the most common couples' issues? If you are thinking "communication, conflict, sex, money, child rearing" you are correct. However, most therapists will go after the symptom on each side of the couple fence thinking that the way to effective change is by getting each party to "work" on their respective "issue". Many times the parties don’t agree but comply. Imagine if you could align the unconscious brains of a couple and stop the "working on your issues" part that has become so popular in therapy settings? Contact kevin@kevinflemingphd.com to learn how! Or call 877-606-6161. DR. FLEMING'S NEW RELATIONSHIP/COUPLES INTENSIVES. www.kevinflemingphd.com/marriage-couples-retreats.php

You don’t even know how long it’s been since you and your partner felt connected. Life has gotten so crazy that prioritizing togetherness falls straight to the bottom of your mental to-do list. You know you are ‘all in’. You are fully committed and want this to work. It’s just that, when the same old problems and arguments come up you start to wonder, “Why am I doing this? Is it over?” Maybe there is a crisis, you’ve been unfaithful or you discovered that your partner was, how do you pick up the pieces? How can you possibly move on? I'm here to tell you, its possible to heal. It's possible to have the life you truly want.

Living as a couple takes more than falling in love. It takes two healthy brains! Our unique holistic approach includes a brain health assessment, so that each one can not only understand how their own brain operates but also how their partner's brain operates. Then we apply treatment based on this far more targeted approach to couples counseling. We also offer nutritional supplementation recommendations, EMDR and biofeedback relaxation therapies along with traditional psychotherapy, to support each individual's optimal functioning. By enhancing the health and wellbeing of each, the common goal of a satisfying relationship can more easily be reached.

Couples conflict ususally results from each person not dealing with his/her own damaged emotions. I work with each person bringing healing to his/her soul (mind and emotions). Once a good degree of healing has taken place, the couple is better able to understand each other and communicate on a healthy level. Also, I offer temperament analysis which is called Creation Therapy. This enable me to share with you the unique creation genetically coded into you at the time of your conception. CT identifies your strengths and your weaknesses. CT identifies your needs and how to get them met. Couples by coming to understand each other's temperament are better able to relate. Contact me today!