Great Couples Counseling in Grayson, GA. Therapy to heal relationships.

Couples are as unique as the individuals in the relationship. However, most couples go through similar cycles in their lives together, and have difficulty with communication and managing conflict. Some couples tend to avoid difficult discussions, and may simply sweep controversial topics aside. Other couples interact with anger, hostility and even aggression. Both of these types are negative and prevent you and your partner from having a fun, fulfilling, committed relationship. I will provide assessment for your relationship, and then teach you both skills to use to improve your communication and conflict resolution. Most couples can improve their relationship in 6-10 sessions.

• Are you frustrated in your current relationship? • Do you and your partner seem to have the same arguments over and over again? • Has your partner told you things aren’t going well? Pay attention! Don’t dismiss their complaints. Learn how to: • Rebuild Trust • Respect one another • Have fondness and admiration • Give benefit of the doubt • Value one another • Consider one another’s perspectives and feelings • Create shared meaning • Compromise • Restore romance Kathleen is a Certified Gottman Couples Therapist. She guides couples through a journey of rediscovery so that they build a stronger marriage and a stronger friendship.

I work with couples who are struggling with their relationship or those who want to strengthen what they already have. Some of the things I help couples with are: developing better communication skills, resolving parenting issues, working thru past resentments, coping with addictions, and better understanding their partners needs so they can have a more empathetic loving relationship. Many couples want more from their relationship but are afraid to start therapy. I help couples discover what they need from their relationship and show them how to get it.

Although all relationships are unique, there are certain issues that I frequently see when doing couple's counseling. These may include: emotional distancing, power struggles, poor communications, jealousy issues, sexual dissatisfaction and infidelity. During counseling, we will work together on identifying and eliminating mutual misunderstandings, and we'll figure out if there are unstated assumptions that can lead to misunderstandings that negatively influence, and if left unchecked, can be detrimental to the relationship's well-being. I will introduce the parties to the important concept of unspoken conflicts, so that we can work on the issues.

In working with couples, I encourage each partner to stop blaming, understand how they are being triggered by each other, learn how to stop arguing, and most importantly, how to hold onto their individuality while staying lovingly connected to each other. I also specialize in divorce support and recovery therapy when it has been determined by you and/or your partner that the relationship/marriage is over.

I enjoy helping couples stay married when at all possible. Relationships take self-awareness, compromise and a shared vision. To often people rush into marriage without really knowing each other and then discover along the way that they only have 80% of what they want instead of celebrating the 80% they focus on the 20% they don't have. Understanding each others differences and limitations will help you navigate a healthy marriage. Shame and guilt are very destructive. Learning how to forgive yourself and move forward by processing your past relationships can help you understand your present relationship. This can be very important in stopping the cycle of dysfunctional relationships.

Relationships can be beautiful but they take work from both parties. Trust, openness, respect, transparency and building healthy communication skills are very important. Sometimes we lose communication somewhere along the way and having a mediator to help both parties see the other persons point of view and hold each one accountable on next steps in the healing process can be very helpful to reconnect and bond your relationship again.

Is your relationship in trouble? Bridgette has successfully worked with hundreds of couples to help them have the relationship they want & she will give you & your partner the tools & skills you need to work through common problems in relationships. She wants you to start experiencing the benefits of couples counseling as soon as possible. Here are some benefits you can expect from your work together: Better communication with your partner, conflict resolution, deeper connection, understanding your triggers( your FEAR dance), feeling loved & falling in love again, more physical & emotional intimacy, true partnership. Bridgette looks forward to helping you create the relationship you want.

Couples counseling can help people make more thoughtful decisions about how to navigate a relationship in a healthy way. Each partner must know who they are and what they bring to a relationship, what the roles and rules (interaction patterns) are that they grew up with, and how each partner's history influences how they relate or want to relate (interaction patterns again) as adults. What we have the most power over in a relationship is ourselves and what we contribute to it.

Whether you’re having specific relationship issues or not, couples counseling can make your relationship better. Most couples only seek help when in a crisis involving infidelity, communication issues, waning intimacy, money, feeling unwanted/unappreciated, in-laws, etc. While these problems may seem insurmountable, with patience and mutual work, it’s possible to resolve them. I provide a safe & supportive space for both partners to explore thoughts and feelings about each other and the relationship and provide practical help to overcome obstacles. Your relationship satisfaction is key to your happiness. Couples counseling can help you regain what you’ve lost or find what you never had.

What are the most common couples' issues? If you are thinking "communication, conflict, sex, money, child rearing" you are correct. However, most therapists will go after the symptom on each side of the couple fence thinking that the way to effective change is by getting each party to "work" on their respective "issue". Many times the parties don’t agree but comply. Imagine if you could align the unconscious brains of a couple and stop the "working on your issues" part that has become so popular in therapy settings? Contact kevin@kevinflemingphd.com to learn how! Or call 877-606-6161. DR. FLEMING'S NEW RELATIONSHIP/COUPLES INTENSIVES. www.kevinflemingphd.com/marriage-couples-retreats.php

Not getting along? You've come to the right place if the problems you face involve relationships. As one of Atlanta's top rated therapists, I use my 20 plus years of experience to help you improve relationships and overcome the anxiety, stress and depression that can be caused by normal relationship issues. Could your relationship use a tune-up? My no nonsense, down to earth approach to everyday issues of relationships will gently guide you through your challenges on the way to the relationship you know is possible. You don't have to struggle any longer. Contact me today.