Find An Eating Disorder Therapist in West Kelowna, BC.

I use Applied Behaviour Analysis (ABA) and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) techniques in my practice, and as such, see much greater results than those who use traditional psychotherapy techniques with eating disorders. My techniques focus you on being accountable for your behaviour and to own it through tracking, data and self-management. YOU own the problem and the solution to this, with my help.

I help clients develop a loving, compassionate relationship with their bodies, learning to honour and nurture themselves rather than engage in harmful patterns. Recognizing that eating disorders often stem from trauma, low self-esteem, or a sense of lost control, I provide a safe, trauma-informed space to explore these underlying experiences. Together, we cultivate appreciation for the body’s natural strength and beauty, replace harmful behaviours with life-affirming practices, and support clients in building gentleness, self-compassion, and a sustainable, nurturing way of living in their bodies.

If you’ve struggled with disordered eating, you are all too familiar with compulsive behavior, obsessive thoughts and a disconnect from the body. You may also have a constant need for control while at the same time feeling a frightening and exhausting loss of all control. Please know that none of this is your choice, but rather is a state of stress and overwhelm while you do your best to feel better. I have nothing but compassion for the distress that comes with food-related challenges, and you have my commitment to help you care for the difficult underlying emotions involved. Together, we will create a safe space to move towards healing and a safe relationship with food and the body.

While most eating disorder issues are treated by cognitive behavioral methodologies or specialized outpatient/inpatient programs, Grey Matters International and the work of Kevin J. Fleming, PhD provide relief first and foremost for the brain of one suffering from an eating disorder----without giving them medication. We believe that the neural circuitries responsible for the compulsive behaviors with eating are not necessarily only a neurotransmitter issue but of overused neural networks that affect the harmonization, balance, and decisions of the whole brain. Contact kevin@kevinflemingphd.com or 877-606-6161 to learn more about this safe and effective alternative.

Struggles with food and body image are often about much more than eating—they can be ways of coping with pain, stress, or difficult emotions. I approach eating disorders with compassion and curiosity, creating a safe space free of judgment where you can begin to untangle the relationship between your emotions, body, and sense of self. I draw from an attachment-focused perspective to explore how early experiences and relationships may have shaped your patterns with food and self-worth. Nervous system regulation techniques help to reduce overwhelm and restore balance, while EMDR can be integrated to process painful experiences or traumas that contribute to disordered eating.

My approach to eating disorders is rooted in compassion, trauma-informed care, and the understanding that these behaviors often serve as coping mechanisms for deeper emotional pain. I help clients explore the underlying triggers—such as trauma, anxiety, or societal pressures—while rebuilding a healthier relationship with food and body. Using evidence-based therapies like CBT, DBT, IFS, and somatic techniques, we’ll address harmful thought patterns, develop emotional regulation skills, and cultivate self-compassion. Together, we’ll work toward sustainable recovery, empowering you to reclaim agency, worth, and joy beyond the disorder.