Anger Management and Counseling in Sheridan, CO.

Anger is a lively emotion and I frequently hear "I don't want to feel angry". That's pretty common, it's not a feel good emotion. It is, however, an informative emotion, and part of the human experience. My approach to anger management counseling first explores how anger shows up in your life, what were you taught about anger, how was anger shown to you, and how would you like to be experienced in your relationships. Skill are a fundamental part of anger management including: Relationship skills, communication, thought and behavior modifications, boundaries, mindfulness and relaxation techniques. Anger management counseling is interactive process in session and provides homework to practice.

Anger can come from a few different things; your boundaries aren't being respected, a catalyzing energy telling you that things need to change, or old wounds from childhood getting touched by current interactions with others. Anger is a signal to you to reclaim your personal power; a fire giving you the fuel you need to create change. I'm here to help you get to the root of the anger and to self-regulate through anger and other difficult emotions, so you can show up as more calm and grounded in your life.

Anger can rob you of so much in your life and relationships. You can learn how to take control of your anger so that you have better relationships with others and a more peaceful life. Our approach is to help you recognize what sets your anger off and work through it so that it loses its power. We will also work on heading your anger off at the pass so that it can't rule your life. You will be less irritable, more patient, and free from the loss of control that anger invariably gives you.

In my experience as an EMDR therapist, I pay close attention to the links between past and present. I’ve seen time and time again how unhealed emotional wounds resurface and come out sideways. While anger management can provide helpful strategies, they don’t get to the heart of the issue. Often, anger is what we see on the surface, but the real problem is what’s underneath the anger. Negative beliefs like “I’m helpless,” “I’m out of control,” and “I’m a failure,” start to bubble up, and anger comes to the rescue. It can get us in trouble, but at least it gets the blood pumping. With research-proven EMDR therapy, I help men heal anger at its source so it doesn’t have to be managed.

Everyone gets angry; at another driver, at your partner, at your kids. This issue is not that you get angry, it's how you handle that anger.Too often we deal with our anger by yelling, hitting or withholding. I will help you look at the root of your anger, help you reframe it and give you positive skills to help you cope with the anger you feel. I will help you identify your "buttons" and explore a different way to respond when those "buttons are pushed"

Anger can feel overwhelming and often masks deeper emotions such as hurt, fear, or frustration. Counseling helps clients understand their anger triggers, develop healthier ways to express emotions, and build skills for regulating intense reactions. Many clients experience improved self-control, clearer communication, and stronger relationships, along with an increased sense of calm, confidence, and emotional balance in daily life.

Many children and teens have anger issues but the question is where does the anger come from? I include the parents on the interview process as well as hear the child/teens thoughts about anger. Together we will come up with a plan that not only works in my office but also at school and home . I believe working with families is the key component to helping control anger. In addition, I will provide the child/teen with calming strategies and help them be mindful of their behavior as well as teach them the warning signs our bodies give off during the times of anger and/or stressful situations. Moreover, I provide groups for anger management.

When anger gets the best of you, you feel out of control and unable to stop your impulses. I will provide a supportive space where you can learn new ways to feel and experience your emotions without becoming explosive. I will help you to recognize your own patterns of behavior so that you don't get to your tipping point as often. We can discuss the other emotions that your anger might be covering up so that you can feel more regulated in all areas of your life, not just with your anger.

Grey Matters International and the work of Kevin J. Fleming, Ph.D approaches issues of anger management in a very humane yet fresh perspective. You see, anger is a normal emotion but it is the valence (intensity) as well as the coupling choice of what one does with this that is the problem. Telling someone to "not" do it or modifying behavior with a trite psychological plan that only breeds a compliant response is not the way to change anger. Brainwaive optimization is a new cutting edge technology that allows one to rewire circuitry responsible for reactivity driving the anger. Contact Grey Matters International, Inc now at kevin@kevinflemingphd.com or 877-606-6161

Our counselors strive to combine time-tested therapeutic techniques with the latest in psychotherapy research to provide you with the best and most effective anger management techniques available. We have several counselors on staff to ensure that you will always be able to access someone who specializes in your needs without waiting. Do you know what it will take to achieve your optimal life? If not, it's okay, we're here to help. (970) 227-2770

Dr. Bruce Rumsey is one of the top facilitators in Colorado having worked with over 9,000 groups where the dominant focus was helping individuals regulate their emotions, particularly anger, in a manner that provided insight to the factors driving their anger. In addition, Dr. Rumsey provided tools that helped client not just resolve their anger, but resolve their anger appropriately. If you or someone you know is struggling with appropriate anger management, there are answers and tools to help resolve this destructive pattern. Fights Healthy choices, communication, and conflict resolution require appropriate anger management skills, and we will cover these as part of our work together

Anger isn’t a problem to control, it’s a signal to understand. Emotions are information, and anger is a powerful signifier that something is not sitting right with you. Together, we'll trace anger to its roots in boundary violations, unmet needs, and protective survival responses in your life. Through somatic awareness and mindful regulation, you’ll learn to use anger as clear information rather than chaos, expressing it in ways that build integrity and connection instead of guilt or shame.

Having a clear awareness of how anger is affecting the people around you is the first and most important step. I incorporate organizational skills extensively in anger management treatment. Consider your approach to life and whether you're utilizing your current skillset to its fullest potential. Additionally, we will explore how you were conditioned to manage anger during your formative years by revisiting your past experiences. Feel free to learn more about my counseling services at: mindyberrycounseling@gmail.com Mindy Berry Counseling 19751 Mainstreet Suite 395 Parker, Colorado 80138