Great Couples Counseling in Boulder, CO. Therapy to heal relationships.

Licensed therapists for relationships and marriages in Boulder, Colorado. Discounts available (see profiles).


Couples Counselor

April Pojman, MA, MS, LPC, CHT

Licensed Professional Counselor

2325 19th Street, Boulder, Colorado

Why are relationships so difficult? Couples therapy can help both of you build the relationship you yearn for. You will learn new skills for communicating as well as tools to support your nervous systems to deactivate from fight, flight or freeze responses. Learn to tend to yourself during conflict, speak your truth and at the same time deeply listen to your partner. Learn to both say and hear the "yes" and "no" of healthy relationships. The secure bond that you build can help each of you heal from past hurts and change old relationship patterns that no longer work. Therapy helps you take responsibility for ensuring the relationship serves you well and support your partner to do the same.

Couples Counselor

Randy Compton, MA

Registered Somatic Psychotherapist

1503 Yarmouth Ave, Boulder, Colorado

I bring 25 years of experience as a mediator, conflict manager, and restorative justice trainer and believe in helping couples learn how to communicate effectively. This means taking responsibility for one's feelings and actions, being open to being wrong, being willing to say what you feel and need, and taking turns with one another as you explore deep territory. We will practice in the office and then take this home to try out, reporting back in the next session. I will have you read Sue Johnson's book "Hold Me Tight" which is based on Emotionally Focused Therapy. Couples work out some of the deepest wounds together and I see couple's therapy as a way to grow and deepen like no other.

Couples Counselor

Celeste Labadie, LMFT

Marriage and Family Therapist

2769 Iris Ave. Ste. 108, Boulder, Colorado

As a Certified Imago Therapist, I specialize in a communication process that leads to dramatic shifts in how you feel about your partner and your relationship. You'll learn how to maintain your calm, how to express your needs, how to get the love you want and your partner will absolutely love doing it with you. Why? Because you both will finally get what you need from each other. I want to remove the blinders that keep you from your best partnership, your best marriage. And if you're not sure your partner is 'the one' for you--that's okay too. Practicing with him or her now will help you in a future relationship. Great communication is the foundation of successful relationships.

Couples Counselor

Jeremy Kalan, MA, LPCC, NCC, CPCC

Nationally Certified Counselor

4673 Tally Ho Ct, Boulder, Colorado

I am passionate about supporting couples to heal the source of their disconnection, so they can return to the loving, caring, supportive way of being with each other that brought them together. We have all learned defense strategies against getting hurt and while these strategies are well meaning, they tend to create disconnection. First, we work together to make sure both people feel heard and understood, so they can put down their weapons. Only then, will we be able to heal the more vulnerable, older wounds underneath the defenses and create an atmosphere of trust, empathy, and love. I support couples to become a safe, secure presence for each other, restore connection, & thrive together.

Couples Counselor

Stephanie Bryan, LCSW, CAC, III

Psychotherapist, Addictions Counselor, & Parent Coach

1530 55th Street, Boulder, Colorado

Many times couples' problems are driven by their differing parenting styles and conflicts over how to raise their children. As a parent educator and parent coach, I can teach you a theoretical framework to help you get on the same page and learn how to work together to complement each other and take control of your home in a healthy way by giving up the control you don't need with your kids and having the control you do need.

Couples Counselor

Bill Frea, Ph.D., BCBA

Clinical Psychologist

636 Coffman Street, Suite 205, Longmont, Colorado

Couples typically come to therapy with the hopes of finding a mediator for their struggles. Both sides want to be heard, understood, and respected. It is critical that therapy begin with an understanding that all good relationships take work, and that work usually involves a certain amount of sacrifice. The top goals for couples is usually the ability to listen, the ability to be flexible on priorities, and the acceptance of measurable goals that both will be accountable for. These goals can be about sex, money, communication, home routines, or even relatives. The key is how we come up with the goals, and support each other in achieving them.

Couples Counselor

Stewart Brown, Ph.D.

Clinical Psychologist

1650 38th St.--Suite 206E, Boulder, Colorado

Most couples come to therapy hoping that the therapist will fix their partner. Blame is almost universally the dynamic. If you come in asking how you might improve your marriage, you will be light years ahead of the game and will save yourself time and money. A lot of my training has to do with helping you eventually see that you actually can be more effective and that intimacy is possible. I use a combination of exercises and a process that increases understanding to help you get there. Once there is understanding, compassion seems to naturally follow.

Couples Counselor

Allison Villarreal, MA, LPC

Licensed Professional Counselor

2995 Baseline Road, Suite 100, Boulder, Colorado

Are you tired of the same patterns over and over again? Are you fighting to "win" rather than to resolve conflict and grow as a couple? Are you putting your job, your kids, your friends or families of origin above your partner? I am far less interested in the details of each fight than with the context with which your maneuver through your relationship. How do you communicate? Are you kind? I can help you to become securely functioning, committed and attached individuals who are greater as a couple than you are individually. I want each partner to feel that they have each other's best interest in mind and that their partner is a safe and loving support system.

Couples Counselor

Scott Boyd, M.A., LPCC, MFTC

Registered Psychotherapist

2027 Broadway, Suite B, Boulder, Colorado

I have been in good relationships (I am currently happily married) and bad relationships, as we all have. I believe my personal experience with relationships, my schooling and training allows me to be a objective and compassionate partner in working with couples. Relationships are hard, no doubt about it, but by working through the issues they can improve.

Couples Counselor

Pamela Silsby, MA, LPC, NCC

Licensed Professional Counselor

100 Arapahoe Lane Suite 12, Boulder, Colorado

I often work with clients who love one another but do not feel like they are getting their emotional needs met in their relationship. Either one or both spouses feel neglected emotionally and they generally need some guidance in learning how to communicate their feelings to their spouse. In intimate relationships we are often more asked to be more vulnerable than we've ever comfortably been allowed to be. This can look like withdrawing, shutting down, being mean, avoidant, angry, insecure, nagging, harsh, rude, controlling, questioning, bossy, or jealous.

Couples Counselor

Sue McCullough, LCSW

Licensed Clincial Social Worker

700 Front Street, Suite 208, Louisville, Colorado

Being a couple is not easy. It requires constant attention to keep a relationship together. I will help you develop the skills to strengthen your relationship using such tools as reflective listening, expressing appreciation and looking honestly at the issues causing trouble in your relationship. I will not chose sides, but will expect that both you and your partner look honestly and openly at your behavior, accept your share of the responsibility and commit to change so the relationship with be strong and enduring.

Couples Counselor

Joe Soma, MA, MS, LPC

Licensed Professional Counselor

2769 Iris Ave, Suite 114, Boulder, Colorado

I work with all configuration of couples on issues of; - communication, - intimacy/sexuality, - maintaining warmth, desire, and attraction in long-term relationships, - managing relationship while raising children or working demanding jobs - unsticking stuck systems in the relationship - navigating changes to the relationship/agreements as individuals grow/change My work with couples is at the level of attachment and core needs. Couples find one another because within that pair, is the possibility of triggering at a core level, and also healing core wounds once that conversation is happening. Through transparency and curiosity, I will help you to find the right conversation.

Couples Counselor

Heather Pylant, MA, MFT

Marriage and Family Therapist

1620 Lee Hill Road, Suite 7, Boulder, Colorado

Couples work is its own discreet field of counseling because of the unique, complex dynamics that only occur in a bond between two people. When we find a significant partner we care about, we want to nurture and grow our rapport, but may end up sabotaging it through misunderstandings & projections instead. In our work together, we will uncover the negative patterns that keep you & your loved one stuck in unproductive cycles. Once these beliefs and behaviors are uncovered, deep shifts in trust can happen. I use effective attachment-based models and self-regulation methods to facilitate compassionate change & connection between couples. I serve both heterosexual & same-sex relationships.



You Have Found The Best Couples Counselors in Boulder, CO. Restore Your Relationship.

Thank you for visiting our Colorado search of licensed therapists for couples in Boulder who specialize in helping relationships and marriages heal and overcome division and hurt. Relationships are hard. Unless you are actively working towards coming together, by default you are drifting apart. It takes work. A licensed therapist is an expert at helping to untangle the mess that can develop when things go wrong. Find honest and effective couples Counseling in Boulder and renew your relationship.

Boulder is located in Boulder County, Colorado. It has a land area of 24.83 square miles and a water area of 1.00 square miles.  The population of Boulder is 108,090 people with 42,165 households and a median annual income of $58,484. .


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Therapy in Boulder is generally within financial reach for the average family, but some budget planning may be needed for a real commitment to weekly counseling. Remember that your mental health and happiness are important. Check with your Boulder therapist about insurance coverage or ask about sliding scale fees if there are any difficulties with accessibility