Great Couples Counselling in Ile des Chenes, MB. Therapy to heal relationships.

Within a couple, there are three developmental processes occurring at any given time-that of each partner and that of the couple itself. A couple matures well when partners each feel able to define their thoughts, feelings, wants and desires, and can voice this in the spirit of knowing one another more deeply. I work with couples to uncover what patterns keep them from effectively self defining and maintaining a positive attachment with each other. To this end, I ask partners to decide their own autonomous goals, and then support them in this to develop their capacity to expand themselves while also growing as a couple.

Happily married but want a deeper connection? Or, tired of arguing and not being understood? There are many underlying issues that affect a relationship. Childhood experiences often impact how each partner communicates or copes with conflict, stress, emotions, etc. Life events and transitions can also stir up overwhelming emotions and tax resources affecting the quality of a relationship. Through therapy, you will discover how past and present life experiences are affecting you, your partner, and your relationship and identify harmful patterns that are hindering the intimacy you long for. Through effective communication techniques you will gain the tools to understand one another better.

What are the most common couples' issues? If you are thinking "communication, conflict, sex, money, child rearing" you are correct. However, most therapists will go after the symptom on each side of the couple fence thinking that the way to effective change is by getting each party to "work" on their respective "issue". Many times the parties don’t agree but comply. Imagine if you could align the unconscious brains of a couple and stop the "working on your issues" part that has become so popular in therapy settings? Contact kevin@kevinflemingphd.com to learn how! Or call 877-606-6161. DR. FLEMING'S NEW RELATIONSHIP/COUPLES INTENSIVES. www.kevinflemingphd.com/marriage-couples-retreats.php