Depression Counseling in Alderwood Manor, WA.

When depression takes over, saps all color from life, drains passion from relationships and interest in activities, takes you by the throat, squeezing your chest, deadening your limbs, making it difficult to breathe or move, I hear a cry for the authentic being within to be truly seen, heard, loved, and accepted. We work to gently help the true you rise through the layers of pain, layers of expectations and lies, layers of imposed identity, that bury your heart and spirit. We work to release or transform all those layers, creating a foundation for and affirming the worth of your authentic self and rebuilding your sense of purpose.

Grey Matters International, Inc. and the work of Kevin J. Fleming, Ph.D. handles depression and other emotional disorders in a very unique way. Most of therapy or counseling processes utilize validation, unconditional positive regard, and reframing as common techniques to get someone to heal from their depression. Though this can be helpful, it rarely fixes the core problem behind it and for tough cases we then refer them usually to a psychiatrist for medication which can have tons of side effects. Instead, why not try a natural and arguably more effective way to not just change your mind, but change the brain--where the depression is rooted. Contact us at kevin@kevinflemingphd.com.

Depression is a devastating disease and can significantly impact everything in your life. If you suspect you or someone you know is depressed but aren't sure, contact me for a brief assessment. I can help you understand more about your struggles and how you might begin to address and overcome this terrible disease in a matter of minutes. I look forward to helping you move beyond the overwhelming and hopeless feelings of depression and into a place of peace and contentment.

I work with many clients who are depressed and am generally very good at assessing which clients would benefit from medication in addition to talk therapy and which clients would benefit from therapy alone. I am very good at relating to depressed clients and try to help them regain connection to self and others as well as find meaning in their suffering.

Life is sad sometimes. For some, the sadness takes over and we become depressed. Depression is emotional, physical, mental and spiritual. To get better we need to address as many of the causes as possible. I teach people to challenge and re-think the beliefs that lead to depressed mood. Sleep, exercise and nutrition are important as well. The more one is depressed, the easier I think it is to stay depressed. Therapy that helps make dramatic changes and helps the person maintain the change is key. I have seen people who had been on antidepressants for years and are still stuck in depression get better in a matter of 4 months with Cognitive Behaviorial Therapy and Neurolinguistic Programming.

Tearfulness, not taking care of yourself, feeling overwhelmed, not wanting to leave home, avoiding people, and not keeping up with responsibilities are ways some people experience depression. But depression can also be harder to detect. You might feel numb or disconnected while still managing do autopilot your way through the day. You might present as funny, enthusiastic, and a go-getter. In that case, likely no one knows you’re suffering, which reinforces your sense of isolation. Funny and happy are not the same thing. In our work together, you'll learn to identify and challenge thoughts that aren't serving you, build greater compassion for yourself, identify your personal values and goals,

I give my clients lots of encouragement, practical strategies for self care, aide in thinking about life in a new way, and an in-depth look at the roots of their depression. We figure out their unique situation together, establish ways to expand socially, and become more physically active. Clients learn what triggers their negative feelings and find ways to avoid depression in the future.

Our work together will help uproot and eliminate the causes of depression in life and relationships. You learn to transform negative thought patterns to positive feelings. Discover the perspective to live a more meaningful and productive life. In so doing, you create a more positive environment for you and loved ones. You will feel lighter and happier. The process is available to anyone willing to invest time and energy.