Family therapy services in Bayview, San Francisco. Relationship and couples counseling.

An intervention is a very supportive and loving way to get help for a family member who is struggling with addiction, an eating disorder, or other untreated mental illness. By taking part in the intervention process, your family group will better understand addiction or mental illness, gain knowledge of chemical dependency or mental health resources, and clarify your feelings and boundaries. I will work toward helping you break through the addict’s or mentally ill person’s denial and increasing his or her treatment willingness so that he or she can then immediately enter the appropriate level of treatment. Call me with any questions or to schedule an initial appointment.

Do you have issues with family members that you just can’t seem to solve? Arguments that keep happening and nothing changes? Loss of harmony and connection? My primary goal when working with families is providing a safe and supportive environment for each family member. Let’s work together to find the underlying causes for the conflict and stress. Once we find the causes, we can forge a path together to build harmony, connection, and compassion between all family members.

Family therapy is the navigation of multiple people and multiple nervous systems over multiple generations and in relation to each other. What comes up in you when you are with a certain someone in your family system? What is your role in your family? Adult, child? Are you authoritarian, permissive, rebellious, clingy? How do you manage and express your emotions and hopes? If you are a parent, what did you learn from your own family of origin experience? What are the family legacies, conscious and unconscious? Do you want to parent from the past or the present? What gets in the way? These are questions we ask and engage with in family therapy. Are you ready?

Most families who come in to see me consist of adult children and their parents. Usually if a family with young children want to see me with their kids, the issues are more about how to parent more effectively. In those cases, I work with the parents to improve the family situation. Let me know if you would like to talk further about your family situation.

I enjoy helping families find creative solutions to nagging conflicts or concerns. It is exciting to see families discover a "We" and the helpful, often surprising things they learn, even from their youngest members as I help them listen to each other more carefully. I also help families create the safety to share things they have found difficult, including their desire to help that is sometimes hidden behind behavior that doesn't feel very loving. I work with families of many shapes and sizes, and I am willing to begin with as many or as few family members as are willing to come for help to create a more healthy and rewarding life together.

Families engaging in therapy with me will find a compassionate and strong leader who understands the profound stress that family conflicts and perpetual problems can create. My approach is centered on guiding families through their tensions and difficulties, providing a structured and supportive environment where each member feels heard and valued. By focusing on your family's unique dynamics and challenges, I facilitate open communication and collaboration, leading to practical and lasting solutions. Clients will leave with a renewed sense of connection and the tools to foster a more harmonious family life, turning seemingly insurmountable problems into opportunities for growth.

Family is the foundation for a happy and healthy society. Family is important! That is why each time I work with a family (and that doesn't have to be every family member), I think of myself as contributing to society in a most profound way one family at a time. Family work is challenging, too. When I work with a family, I like to have as many family members possible in session, so I can see the interactions and family dynamics. Making little changes can bring about big results.