Anger Management and Counseling in Ahwatukee, AZ.

Anger is a specific form of dysregulation where the body is out of balance and looking for away to get back into balance. We work with clients to get back into balance and find ways to release anger in healthy ways. Our goal is to understand where the anger may be coming from and work to find ways explore the things that may be underlying the anger response.

Anger is a normal human emotion. When expressed it can be productive or destructive, affecting a person's health and relationships. In working with anger management, I help clients identify its origin, whether it's a learned response and to become aware of the triggers. I work to help them learn to regulate their nervous system and challenge any negative thoughts so they can learn to express rather than act out their feelings.

I utilize various techniques to assist with anger management such as: mindfulness, emotion regulation and distress tolerance. In addition to assisting with any unresolved trauma and family of origin issues that may contribute to struggles with anger/rage. Many cognitive behavioral therapy strategies can assist with re-learning how to cope with overwhelming feelings that are inherent in anger.

Grey Matters International and the work of Kevin J. Fleming, Ph.D approaches issues of anger management in a very humane yet fresh perspective. You see, anger is a normal emotion but it is the valence (intensity) as well as the coupling choice of what one does with this that is the problem. Telling someone to "not" do it or modifying behavior with a trite psychological plan that only breeds a compliant response is not the way to change anger. Brainwaive optimization is a new cutting edge technology that allows one to rewire circuitry responsible for reactivity driving the anger. Contact Grey Matters International, Inc now at kevin@kevinflemingphd.com or 877-606-6161

Anger can often feel like a powerful, overwhelming force, leaving you feeling out of control and disconnected from the people you love. My approach to anger is not about simply suppressing it, but about understanding it with compassion. Anger is often a signal fire for other, deeper feelings like hurt, fear, or profound overwhelm. The primary benefit of our work together will be gaining clarity on what triggers your anger and why. We will develop practical, effective strategies to help you regulate your emotions in the moment, allowing you to respond to stressful situations with calm and confidence instead of reacting with rage.

Problems with appropriate expression of anger often contribute to relationship strain within couples, marriages, parent child connections, friendhips, families, friends and work associates. Dr. Keller helps patients explore the underlying hurt and feelings of vulnerability often associated with impairments in anger management. He teaches assertive skills, communication skills, conflict negotiation skills,and relaxation skills necessary for appropriate expression of anger. At times inappropriate anger is related to neurobiological problems and or substance abuse.. Dr. Keller refers patients to medical speicalists for further evaluation when indicated.

I specialize in helping men, and anger management is one of the things that guys struggle with most. For most men, we either stuff our anger and let it fester, and then usually explode when it has built up to a point that it can't be pushed down anymore. It's like a pressure cooker. I work with men to help cool their anger, and come up with other tools and outlets for their natural expression of anger. Also, for some men, depression is an inverted form of anger expression, and I work with is meant to help give a voice to their quiet suffering. I work with angry and depressed guys in the greater Phoenix, Arizona area.

Are you struggling with anger? Do you have outbursts & regret them? Do you stuff your anger & then take it out on someone? Is anger tearing apart you or your relationships? Are you worried how it will affect your kids? You are not alone. The good news is you can learn how to control your anger & still express yourself. You'll learn skills, understand where it comes from, and know how to express it in a healthy manner. Anger is a signal that you can listen to and learn from without destroying yourself or others.

My approach to anger management focuses on helping clients recognize the triggers and underlying emotions that contribute to their anger. Through techniques such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) coping skills, we work together to identify unhelpful thought patterns, build healthier coping skills and practice emotional regulation strategies. My goal is to help clients respond to frustration with greater self-awareness, manage anger more effectively, and improve their relationships and overall well-being.

The goals of therapy are expressing feelings assertively, identifying upsetting situations or triggers and being emotionally prepared, thinking logically, focusing on solutions, and calming down when faced with upsetting situations. Common strategies introduced are impulse control, increased self-awareness, meditation and breathing techniques, relaxation strategies, personal reflection, and emotional awareness using CBT, ACT, and solution-focused therapy.

Grey Matters International and the work of Kevin J. Fleming, Ph.D approaches issues of anger management in a very humane yet fresh perspective. You see, anger is a normal emotion but it is the valence (intensity) as well as the coupling choice of what one does with this that is the problem. Telling someone to "not" do it or modifying behavior with a trite psychological plan that only breeds a compliant response is not the way to change anger. Brainwave optimization is a new cutting edge technology that allows one to rewire circuitry responsible for reactivity driving the anger. Contact Grey Matters International, Inc now at kevin@kevinflemingphd.com or 877-606-6161.