Family Counselling Services in Baldonnel, BC.

Trobak Holistic Counselling's approach to family therapy is: 1. Understand why a family is struggling. 2. Working with each family member individually and exploring their life experiences as well as their roles in the family. 3. Working with the parents to see what previous experiences from their childhood they are bringing into the family. 4. Helping parents, and all members resolve past trauma or unresolved issues.

Most family therapists inadvertently create more chaos through their well-intentioned efforts to assist a family move through a change process. Why? Brains are inherently deregulated (all of us, may I add) and most talking and dialoguing misses brain-centric problems that need more intensive help. Many times the emotional trauma created by years of solving problems ineffectively can wreak havoc on the brain's parasympathetic nervous system, not ever giving the family a break from flight or fight thinking. Contact us for an innovative neuroscience solution to family dysfunction. Kevin@kevinflemingphd.com or 877-606-6161.

Family Therapy with me provides a supportive space to improve communication, repair tension, and strengthen your relationships. Together, we'll explore patterns, deepen understanding, and build healthier ways of connecting. Each voice matters. Our work creates space for healing, cooperation and a renewed sense of trust and belonging within your family.

Family dynamics can be a complicated and sensitive balance within a home. This can be made increasingly complicated by divorce, blended families, individual parenting, spiritual values, health issues and much more. Counseling can provide family members a neutral voice and a place to be heard when fighting and arguing is impacting daily functioning and happiness, of one or more family members. We also help develop necessary tools to resolve conflict in a healthy way, bringing peace and harmony back to everyday lives.

Today family can mean different things to different people. Each family structure is challenged with their own set of difficulties and problems. Whether you are a blended family, single parent family due to divorce or loss, adoptive family, same sex parents, or traditional, we recognize family dynamics can be complicated. Together we will work to develop strong communication skills between each family member, while nurturing and solidifying the family unit. We will work to overcome conflict, heal the wounds of the past, build parenting skills and create a safe environment where all family members can be heard.

My approach to family therapy focuses on creating a safe, non-judgmental space where every voice is heard and valued. I help families identify unhelpful patterns, improve communication, and rebuild trust using evidence-based methods like Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and the Gottman Method. By addressing underlying emotions and unmet needs, we’ll work to transform conflict into connection. Whether navigating parenting challenges, generational trauma, or major transitions, my goal is to empower families with practical tools for healthier relationships and lasting harmony.