Great Couples Counselling in Baldonnel, BC. Therapy to heal relationships.

Having a rewarding, satisfying marriage is one of life's greatest pleasures; thus it is sad to see how many people feel they need to be satisfied with mediocrity in this area. Currently, there is a lot of research in the area of marriage on what it takes to make a marriage this great experience. The hard part is that it often takes changing patterns. The goal in marriage therapy is to isolate the issues that are causing the relationship to derail (which are often different than what the conflicts are about) and work on creating understanding and new ways of relating that fit with each partner's goals through creating healing attachment experiences.

Many couples struggle with communication and "feeling heard". Over time a once happy and vibrant relationship can begin to decay through hurt feelings, anger, lack of attention, feeling valued, infidelity, the strain of children, childhood issues, and much more. We focus to heal the wounds of the past and rebuild the love and trust within the relationship. We work to equip both partners with a voice and ability to effectively listen and hear one another. We will work together to establish individual boundaries within the relationship, while creating a stronger and healthier connection. Our goal is to equip each couple with the tools they require for success, independent of counselling

The Core Erotic Blueprints (developed by noted American Sexologist, Jaiya Ma) are a map to healing and growing in our sexuality and eroticism. They help us understand ourselves and our partners, and open us to the appreciation of the full depth and breadth of human sexual expression. I offer coaching packages for individuals and couples, and teach workshops in this powerful system. All forms of love, relationship structures, and sexual expression (from the sweetest "vanilla" to the raunchiest kink) welcome.

Trobak Holistic Counselling's approach to couples therapy is: 1. Understand why a the couple is struggling. 2. Often people bring in their own baggage into a relationship. These unresolved issues can cause tension, frustration, lack of trust, abuse, disrespect etc in a relaitonship. 3. Working with individuals to work through their own personal stuff and then bringing the individuals together as a couple to work through issues with being a couple.

My work with couples is founded in attachment theory. Our romantic relationships mimic our first relationships as infants. I will help you to understand your individual attachment styles (ways of relating) and how these may be currently working against you. With this new understanding of your partner, you can begin to work together as a team.