Great Couples Counselling in Baldonnel, BC. Therapy to heal relationships.

Trobak Holistic Counselling's approach to couples therapy is: 1. Understand why a the couple is struggling. 2. Often people bring in their own baggage into a relationship. These unresolved issues can cause tension, frustration, lack of trust, abuse, disrespect etc in a relaitonship. 3. Working with individuals to work through their own personal stuff and then bringing the individuals together as a couple to work through issues with being a couple.

Relationships are far from simple. An individual person is so complex on their own, adding another person into the mix can just be chaos! I work closely with my clients and equip them with tools to better understanding their relationship and how to learn and grow closer together. With my assistance I can help you to navigate through difficult times to find peace, healing and harmonious living.

Having a rewarding, satisfying marriage is one of life's greatest pleasures; thus it is sad to see how many people feel they need to be satisfied with mediocrity in this area. Currently, there is a lot of research in the area of marriage on what it takes to make a marriage this great experience. The hard part is that it often takes changing patterns. The goal in marriage therapy is to isolate the issues that are causing the relationship to derail (which are often different than what the conflicts are about) and work on creating understanding and new ways of relating that fit with each partner's goals through creating healing attachment experiences.

Couples counselling focuses on developing strong communication skills, conflict resolution techniques, forgiveness, and effective dialogue. Many couples experience frustration at some point in their relationship where they feel they are not heard, valued or even loved any more. A toxic cycle of blaming, fighting and pulling away begins to form, creating distance and fatigue. For others an affair has shaken the very core of the safety and love they once felt in their relationship. It can be an agonizing and terrifying discovery for the partner who has been betrayed, and strong feelings of guilt, shame and a lack of understanding to how it even happened for the offending partner. Whether you are looking for a tune up to build back the excitement and...(view profile to read more)

What are the most common couples' issues? If you are thinking "communication, conflict, sex, money, child rearing" you are correct. However, most therapists will go after the symptom on each side of the couple fence thinking that the way to effective change is by getting each party to "work" on their respective "issue". Many times the parties don’t agree but comply. Imagine if you could align the unconscious brains of a couple and stop the "working on your issues" part that has become so popular in therapy settings? Contact kevin@kevinflemingphd.com to learn how! Or call 877-606-6161. DR. FLEMING'S NEW RELATIONSHIP/COUPLES INTENSIVES. www.kevinflemingphd.com/marriage-couples-retreats.php