Anger Management and Counselling in Low, QC.

Anger is a secondary emotion that is often referred to as a bodyguard emotion. It seconds the primary emotions that are often more vulnerable. Anger has multiple functions but there are times when it does its job too well that instead of communicating unmet needs, it breaks down relationships instead. Our work will focus on building a bridge between how you experience emotions and how you express/communicate them. We will work on recognizing signs, triggers, enablers, and soothers of anger. The goal is always to regulate intensity, communicate the needs behind the emotion, and reduce conflict in personal and professional relationships.

It may take someone close to us to let us know that our temper has gotten out of hand. Other times, we may know what it is that's causing us to feel angry, but, don't know how to manage the emotion, let alone the situation. In more unfortunate cases, it can turn into a situation involving authorities. While we all experience anger at one point or another and in some way or another, when it becomes problematic, it can become a real issue. Anger management at Uniquely You is an individualized process that involves finding possible solutions, implementing healthier coping, regulating emotions, and finding deeper meaning and roots to the anger that you are experiencing

I offer supportive anger management counselling in a non-judgmental environment for individuals who want to understand and better manage their anger. Together, we explore the triggers and underlying emotions behind anger while building practical tools for calm, clear communication, and emotional regulation. Drawing from CBT, mindfulness, and relational approaches, I help clients respond to difficult situations with greater control, patience, and healthier ways of expressing their needs.

Anger is a potent and powerful emotion but can have a devastating effect on our relationships and ourselves. Let's work together to master that energy and have it serve you instead of being victimized by it. A psychosomatic approach that deals with the body, as well as the mind will help reveal and explore the underlying sources of anger and empower you to make better choices when it shows up.

I take a compassionate, attachment-based approach to anger, helping you understand the deeper emotions and unmet needs that fuel it. Through somatic awareness, we’ll work on reconnecting with your body’s signals so you can recognize anger as valuable information rather than something to fear or suppress. Together, we’ll explore healthy ways to express and manage anger, build emotional regulation skills, and strengthen your ability to respond—rather than react—in moments of stress or conflict.

I see anger as a protective signal from a nervous system under strain, not a personal failing. In our work, we slow things down so you can understand what’s beneath the intensity—stress, hurt, boundaries, or unmet needs. I offer a steady, non‑judgmental space to explore these patterns, build regulation and clarity, and create more choice in how you respond. Over time, anger becomes less overwhelming and more of a guide toward what matters, helping you move through daily life with greater steadiness and confidence

Anger issues often run deep within a person's soul. They can be connected to past hurt, injustice, betrayal or even disappointment. First and foremost, I believe it's important to uncover and resolve the core issues that have caused the anger. Doing so will also help you gain internal awareness which will allow you to begin building the necessary skills to respond to life's difficulties, rather than react. Learning to respond is the process of calming your emotions enough to think, pray and choose your behaviour. Reacting is simply being dictated by your unresolved issues, a lack of awareness and the necessary tools. I can help you resolve you anger rather than simply manage it!

Exploration of anger invitations and which are turned down and which are accepted. Examining adaptive responses to anger. The role of neuroplasticity and mindfulness is explored. Discussing the 4 R's of anger management further. Breathing retraining and visualizing a preferred image of how one desires to address anger in the future is examined. Progressive muscle relaxation processes are shared to create a cue for dearousal.

Grey Matters International and the work of Kevin J. Fleming, Ph.D approaches issues of anger management in a very humane yet fresh perspective. You see, anger is a normal emotion but it is the valence (intensity) as well as the coupling choice of what one does with this that is the problem. Telling someone to "not" do it or modifying behavior with a trite psychological plan that only breeds a compliant response is not the way to change anger. Brainwaive optimization is a new cutting edge technology that allows one to rewire circuitry responsible for reactivity driving the anger. Contact Grey Matters International, Inc now at kevin@kevinflemingphd.com or 877-606-6161