Great Couples Counselling in North York, ON. Therapy to heal relationships.

You can have an even better relationship! I work with you to identify what your issues are. We learn what your communication issues are, what is working and what is not in your relationship and implement practical action plans to improve this. Further, we identify your negative patterns of relating to each other and how this is a habit that hurts the relationship, and we learn how to get out of that pattern, shift behaviors, and relate in the most respectful, loving, kind manner which ultimately often improves your sex life, your happiness, and your fulfillment.

Winnie provides non-judgemental and compassionate couple therapy. In dealing with Couples counselling she primarily draws from her training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). EFT is the most progressive and well researched therapeutic interventions used in Couples Therapy. By using this practical and effective method, the goal is to help couples to identify their cycle, how they are connecting in their distressing patterns, and how they can be helped to reconnect again in a new pattern. Winnie has also attended the Intensive Sex Therapy course at University of Guelph.

When working with couples the basis for most sessions is to work on communication. Men and women are different. They are different in how they talk, listen and solve problems. Couples have to be taught to embrace these differences and understand them; instead of fighting them and resenting them. Through counseling, couples will learn how to fight fairly, communicate more effectively and be heard when they need to talk. They will learn how to work together and not against each other. They will learn how to be partners that support each other.

What are the most common couples' issues? If you are thinking "communication, conflict, sex, money, child rearing" you are correct. However, most therapists will go after the symptom on each side of the couple fence thinking that the way to effective change is by getting each party to "work" on their respective "issue". Many times the parties don’t agree but comply. Imagine if you could align the unconscious brains of a couple and stop the "working on your issues" part that has become so popular in therapy settings? Contact kevin@kevinflemingphd.com to learn how! Or call 877-606-6161. DR. FLEMING'S NEW RELATIONSHIP/COUPLES INTENSIVES. www.kevinflemingphd.com/marriage-couples-retreats.php

I support one individual in a relationship and do not communicate directly with the other individual unless I receive permission to do so. This approach to couples counselling is especially helpful in situations where one person is thinking of leaving the relationship or in cases where emotional, verbal or more obvious forms of abuse may be happening. I can support you to take a step back, get clear on what you would like for yourself and the relationship, and take action to get where you want to be.

Couples can expect to make great gains working with me . My training with Dr. Stan Tatkin in the PACT method (see my bio for link to more on this) enables me to empower couples to turn together toward the coupleship and what is best for the relationship without abandoning the needs of the self. Couples will determine and discover how to create a couple bubble that is strong, flexible, honest, intimate and repairable! All decisions the couple makes will be good for each individual and good for the couple thus establishing an equal ground of intimacy.

This therapy specializes in couples counseling. We will specifically address your issues, and help you both grow in your relationship, and as individuals. It is an amazing step to reach out for help, and we will work together to let go of the contention, and confrontation. Your lives will transform into mutual understanding and growth. I offer a free consultation, as finding the right therapist is really important. I look forward to helping you move past this difficult time. www.kenwalton.org ken@kenwalton.org 416-659-1617

Relationship therapy offers an opportunity for individuals in many different kinds of relationships (wife/husband, life partners, parent/child, siblings, friends, etc.) to deal with the way in which past experience negatively affects current situations. Therapy process helps separate what is appropriate to the present from what is erupting from the past. In couples therapy, the relationship is the focus, although each partner should also expect to gain insights into their own struggles. The healing process encompasses the individuals and all their relationships. In six sessions you will gain tools and insights to feel empowered and competent in the areas of your relationships.

Relationships are vital to life but are also messy and hard. I am passionate about helping couples cultivate better relationships with each other. In a safe, nonjudgmental and compassion-filled therapeutic relationship, I will work with you to understand your relationship patterns and help you identify ways to change that will help you build a stronger & deeper connection, and open the door to a more fulfilling relationship.

Often times it takes courage to enter into couples therapy, and even more to stay the course. Fear of "exposure" if inadequacies of guilt often blocks well-meaning partners from crossing the threshold and doing the work. Together we will brainstorm and study what behaviours need to change, what rigid views of self and other need modification and clarification, what directions and self image from the past that have put a blight on the present.

Our most intimate relationships are where we are often challenged the most to grow. Much of my work with couples is helping each person feel entitled to their feelings and feel able to advocate for their needs within the relationship. So often we have expectations of how our partner or spouse is supposed to be, how we are supposed to be with them and there are unspoken expectations to navigate between us. These assumptions can easily lead to very destructive patterns that we act out with the person we want to feel the closest to. Our work is to strengthen ourselves from the inside out so that we can meet our partner "full of ourselves" and then find ways to be together that are a win win!

At MCCG we offer specialized counselling services for couples in need. We tailor our approach to the needs and wants of each unique couple's situation instead of using a one size fits all approach. Our therapists work towards helping the couple process their past and present issues from an emotional standpoint. Helping you navigate through your issues and goals also takes place in a supportive and nonjudgemental environment.

I work with couples from an Emotionally-Focused framework to help them identify the negative patterns that are causing problems in the relationship. Much of the time, problems can stem all the way back to early family/past relationships. I help clients understand what thoughts or fears are contributing to the issues, and work with them to develop more healthy, loving patterns.