Marriage counselling that Heals in Shawnigan Lake, BC. Restore Your Relationship.

Each relationship faces unique hurdles and holds unique potential for growth. By skillfully tuning into each other's internal world, learning new ways of being together and navigating conflict, we'll work to break through what may be hindering you.

We all have needs and wants to be met in our partnerships, but do we know how to effectively communicate them to actually be seen and be heard? The bickering, the fighting, the punishing of each other, is draining. Let's start repairing!

Using a developmental and systems approach, I support each individual in the role of being an ally to the other. I work with couples and families of all types of configurations towards respect, love, collaborative problem solving and mutual understanding.

A healthy marriage takes work. Therapy will reach the heart of the issues and begin the process of restoration. Let's get started.

Sharolyn is effective with individuals, twosomes and groups who wish to make healthy, sustainable changes to their lifestyles and relationships. She offers a practical and action-oriented approach for those seeking resolution for everyday issues, problems and concerns.

One of my areas of interest and expertise is working with family members affected by the mental health and addiction challenges of their loved ones. I offer family education, especially around accommodating versus offering appropriate support.

Counselling helps couples and families strengthen their relationships, solve problems and gain understanding. Communication, anger, sexual issues and blended families are just a few of the problems clients describe. You will find me supportive and easy to talk to.

Though we are not licensed marriage counselors, Grey Matters International, Inc. provides cutting edge brain optimization and rebalancing technology to better align the minds of partners to reduce conflict, increase hope---for the brain has the final word on change.

Have you found that whatever you try doesn’t help, you can’t win? A family is a dynamic system requiring attention, and it is easy to miss what is needed when you are busy surviving. I bring couples and families together to clarify and learn together.

Relationships take work. We long for deep connection and yet often don’t know how; love so often gets buried in untold stories, repressed needs, and personal insecurities. I provide a safe space for partners to learn how to love and honour each other better.

I assist couples to be more authentic, to feel closer and to develop true intimacy by increasing their sense of self. Through greater differentiation and connection, we are able to realize the relationship we always imagined.

Our most intimate relationships have the potential to bring us the greatest joy and also the greatest challenges. I help couples listen and communicate better, using practical evidence based tools that enhance trust and connection.

Shelley is an advanced clinician with Imago Relationships International, since 1995. Teaching and coaching skills that will create healthy, loving relationships, where couples can experience safety, love, compassion and intimacy is her passion and gift.