Depression Counselling in Kimberley, BC.

Have you lost interest in activities that use to bring you joy? Do you feel down, sad, or depressed? Do you sleep more often than you use to or have trouble feeling motivated? Depression can be very difficult to cope with and can feel like the dark cloud will never lift. There is hope! Bettina uses empirically validated therapies to help the cloud of depression lift, so you can see the joy in your life again. EMDR and CBT are scientifically proven therapies for depression. Sometimes trauma or emotional childhood experiences can cause depression. EMDR helps heal the wounds of trauma which has a significant impact on symptoms of depression.

Depression isn’t who you are — it’s a response to pain you were never meant to carry alone. In my counselling practice, I offer a steady, compassionate space to explore the heaviness, numbness, and self-doubt that can feel overwhelming. Together, we listen for what your fatigue and sadness are trying to protect, rebuild connection, and gently re-ignite a sense of meaning. You don’t have to move through the darkness on your own. With care, patience, and support, a way forward becomes possible.

As someone who has a history of depression personally and intergenerationally, I am well aware of the great challenges and opportunities for growth that this experience can bring. For those struggling with depression, healing can feel elusive, as if nothing will ever work. It often requires a wider lens, an eye for patterns and a holistic orientation to shift this dynamic. My approach comes from my years resolving my own patterns of depression and integrating the ancestral patterns that laid the foundation for it in my life. I now come to you with a wide-reaching tool kit to support you in your journey. I offer EMDR and other trauma processing approaches to support you when appropriate.

Depression can be experienced in a magnitude of ways and is often experienced differently by each individual. Symptoms may range from feeling increasingly irritable, experiencing a sense of emptiness and hopelessness, and an individual often will feel completely overwhelmed, losing interest in activities they once enjoyed. Depression may also be experienced physically. Physical symptoms may include, but are not limited to a lack of energy, problems sleeping, pronounced weight changes, and eventually, even serious illness. In cases of mild to moderate depression, there is an increasing amount of research supporting counselling as effective as medication in improving a person’s mood. Many clients have been referred to counselling by their family doctor when...(view profile to read more)

Depression can leave you feeling disconnected from yourself, the people you love and the life you want to be living. You may feel exhausted, numb, hopeless or alone, or find yourself withdrawing from relationships even when part of you longs for connection. I offer depression counselling that goes beyond simply trying to think more positively. Using an emotion-focused approach, we can gently explore what is happening underneath the sadness, numbness or disconnection, understand the experiences and relationships that may be shaping how you feel, and help you reconnect with your emotions, your needs and the people who matter to you.

It is important to recognize that depression "looks different" across people, and I work with clients to identify and address the unique factors that contribute to their depression. For some people the focus may be on cognitive distortions and various thinking styles, while for others a pattern of withdrawal from sustaining interactions with other people may be prominent. A common focus of my approach include helping clients increase their involvement in both meaningful and pleasurable activities, such as physical exercise, hobbies, and social opportunities. Also, over the past several years I have increasingly recognized the importance of mindfulness and incorporate this consistently.

Depression is not merely a passing bout of sadness; it's a debilitating condition that affects a person's emotions, thoughts, and physical well-being. Symptoms can range from feelings of emptiness, lack of motivation, and loss of interest in once-enjoyed activities, to changes in appetite, sleep disturbances, and even physical pain. In severe cases, depression can lead to thoughts of self-harm or suicide. It's important to recognize that depression is not a sign of weakness, but rather a complex interplay of genetic, environmental, and psychological factors. We are here to help you through it, listen without judgement, and create a plan for reducing the impact of depression on your life.

Depression is tricky. Depression causes a lowered mood, fatigue, and decreased motivation. Sometimes, Depression goes unnoticed by friends and family. It can appear like everything in your life should be fine, but inside, it's a struggle to get out of bed. I provide a non-judgmental space to explore the areas of your life impacted by depression. You will learn alternative coping mechanisms to help ease future symptoms of depression.