Anger Management and Counselling in Milton, ON.

Anger is like an iceberg. It is only the tip. The other nine-tenths remains hidden and unknown. We need to connect with the nine-tenths, or the primary feelings such as hurt, pain, guilt, shame and fear. I will work with you to unearth your primary feelings and to devise alternative ways to manage your feelings. A good book for you to read is Hold Me Tight by Susan Johnson, especially the chapter "Recognizing the Demon Dialogues."

Anger is one the most misunderstood emotions and leads to some of the most destructive ideas and actions. Let us help you make sense of this from the inside out. Anger is the flip side of passion. When you are really angry it's because you're passionate about something! Anger is always a call for change, something needs to change either in our external world or within so we can feel better and more alive in our life. Let us help. We can help you make sense of your anger. We'll help you understand how to utilize your feelings to work for you rather than against you and to create the changes needed in your life.

Anger is a primary feeling that signals when we perceive that our boundaries are crossed. It is a normal, healthy response that cannot be avoided in relationships. Like a compass, it gives us direction in relating to those around us. For best outcomes, it is essential to learn to deal with our anger using productive and mindful strategies. The healthy expression of anger is not hurtful, aggressive or repressed. Rather, it can be used to deal with conflict and set the parameters for negotiating in healthy ways, making room for everyone’s needs.

Therapy for anger management can be helpful for both your close relationships and the workplace. Therapy integrates strategies to regulate emotion, tolerate distress, and express frustrations in a manner that is respectful. If your anger difficulties occur exclusively within the context of a romantic relationship, couple’s therapy or therapy with a couple’s therapist can be particularly helpful. New Leaf Psychology Centre also offers anger management therapy for children and youth.

Anger is a completely normal, often healthy human emotion. But if it gets beyond your control, it can be very destructive in your work and interpersonal relationships and can drastically devastate the quality of your life. Fortunately, anger can be 'managed' which is very different than 'suppressing' it. Unexpressed anger leads to a host of other problems including high blood pressure. However, when we learn how to 'manage' our anger, we can learn to diminish both the emotional feelings and the physiological arousal that anger causes. We can learn to avoid triggers and develop strategies. We can learn how to problem solve, change our thinking and relax our bodies.

Anger is probably the most misunderstood emotions and also one of our most valuable tools. Many of us have expereinced anger as abusive, brutal or scary. But don't confuse the feeling of anger with it's expression. The flip side of anger is passion. When we are really anger we are very passionate! We care deeply about something. Regardless of how it looks, anger is always a call for change. If we understand it and use anger to work for us, it never has to become large or mean. Instead it is like an inner advocate working for us with clarity and firmness creating the changes we need. We will work with you to harness your anger and get it working for you rather than against you!

Anger management is all about understanding where anger comes from, what causes it, and how to manage the feelings that cause it. By exploring the biological aspects of our brain, understanding our triggers, and learning about the environment we find ourselves in we can learn to manage our anger and direct it to a more useful outcome. Through therapy we will create a safe space to explore this issues and work together to be a treatment plan that is collaborative and unique to you.

Do you feel like you fail every time you get angry? If you had paid for an anger management course you might be really sore about paying for it and then finding out that you continue to get angry! How about finding out what makes you angry and why it makes you angry through an Understanding Your Own Anger course! In the course you find out what makes you personally tick. Not what makes others tick, but you personally and specifically.