Grief and Loss Counselling in Clearview, ON.

When you lose someone or something precious to you, it’s natural to experience pain and grief. The process of grief and bereavement is normal, and most people go through it. But when grief takes over your life and makes you feel hopeless, worthless and helpless, then it becomes important to talk to a counsellor about telling the difference between normal grief and depression. The Family Enhancement Centre has several therapists who specialize in Grief and Bereavement counselling. Contact us today to know how we can help you.

My approach to assisting with loss and grieving is to normalize the experience...loss of someone or something we love creates grief. Helping people learn how to best withstand and manage the emotions, the way loss can stop you in your tracks, and how to begin moving again is vital work. The bottom line is that, as long as you love, you grieve. We CAN learn to manage.

Grief is a natural and normal emotional response to physical and/or social loss. Anxiety, guilt, despair, sadness, sleeping problems, appetite changes, or illness can be common issues related to grief. Despite unique coping style for each individual, numbness, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance are common stages of grief. Counselling provides understanding and insight to those issues of grief.

The normal grieving process takes time. If you feel that you are having difficulty moving forward, or if you feel stuck, reach out. I can help you process your loss in a way that allows for you to grieve without greatly impacting your own health. Together we will process and find a safe space for your experience. Your loss will never be forgotten, but you can heal from the pain that stops you from living your life.

At Hera Therapy, we approach grief and loss from a cognitive-behavioural therapy perspective. We will provide empathic support and reflection through this difficult time and help support you in getting back to baseline. We understand how difficult grief and loss can be, and want you to feel fully understood so you can heal.

Grieving is not something to overcome, rather to be respected. It is the careful and essential process toward healing; toward finding acceptance and understanding. It can’t be rushed, but it can be directed. Through compassion and therapeutic guidance, grief can do its work effectively. Profound changes in our lives can be daunting. Despite years of experience, I am humbled by those in grief. Grieving is complicated. The boundaries of pain reach beyond sadness, loss, and adjustment, often to unfinished business, guilt, and anger. It seems unimaginable, but with guidance, fragmented emotions can find balance again. Life will find its way.

Loses happen in our life. The most common response to the significant loss is grief. We all have been there and not just once. Unfortunately, many of us were not prepared for the stress and sadness of loss and did ‘not know how to go through grieving, and what to do to cope with it. At the same time, the science of Psychology developed coping methods and tools that can provide relief and help you get back on your feet. It is not necessary to experience this alone, take the opportunity to come and learn the arsenal of tools under my guidance and support to begin the journey of recovery. We cannot eliminate loses from our life, but we can reduce its negative impact and promote healing.

In Grief & Loss Therapy with me, clients will experience a compassionate and understanding approach to navigating the difficult emotions and challenges that arise after the loss of a loved one or significant life change. I provide a safe space for clients to express their feelings, memories, and struggles without judgment. Through active listening and empathetic support, I help clients process their grief and develop coping strategies to find healing and resilience. By acknowledging and honoring their unique experiences of loss, clients can gradually find a sense of closure, meaning, and hope, allowing them to move forward in their lives while cherishing the memories of those they have lost.

Grief and loss counselling is, at its heart, about creating a space where you don’t have to pretend you’re okay. When life shifts suddenly due to the death of someone you love, the end of a relationship, a major change in health, or any loss that shakes your sense of who you are, it can feel like your whole world is unstable. Matt offers a place to gently unpack all of that without pretense or expectation of pace. Grief is deeply personal, and it does not follow a timeline or a tidy sequence of stages.

Sudden loss is the most painful experience we face whether it is of a loved family member or something very dear and meaningful to us (including a job or the vision we have of ourself), it is uniquely personal and finding a quiet and empathetic forum to "just talk" so that pent-up and mixed feelings are let go, and in this and this alone is what is called "moving on". Unexpressed feelings of loss are the source of ongoing emotional distress. Often, "depression" can mask long-term loss that has not been "resolved". I will help you both understand the context of your loss and to move beyond it in order to be healthy and resilient again.

I, like many of us, am no stranger to the feelings of grief and loss and I am aware of how deeply unique and personal these experiences can be. The way that I imagine being part of your journey through these moments is by holding your hand and walking through this unknown path together, while discovering new aspects and meanings of the self along the way. I will check in with you to ensure that we are walking this path on a pace that is most suitable for you, for there is no need to rush during this time. Contact me to schedule a free consultation to ensure we are a good fit.

The experience of loss may result from many life experiences including the passing of a human loved one or a beloved pet, the ending of a relationship, job loss, or changes to our physical or mental capabilities. Grief is one of the most challenging of human emotions. Together, we will navigate your unique grieving process to enable you to experience growth and empower you to create a life you can accept and enjoy despite your loss.

Creating a safe and supportive environment to work through various techniques via grief focused therapy in order to express emotions and feelings, understand grief, and work through ways to cope with various forms of loss. Techniques include focus on self-care and focused grief work to support acceptance, tolerance and and understanding the stages of grief.