Grief and Loss Counselling in Toronto, ON.

You are hurting right now, and I understand that. Grief has a way of making even ordinary days feel heavy, and you do not have to carry it alone. I have lived through grief and loss many times myself, and in more than three decades of practice I have sat with many people in exactly this kind of pain. Let us talk about what you are feeling. I have been a psychologist since 1986, and I can help. I am based in Calgary and see clients across Alberta, Ontario, Quebec, Nova Scotia, and New Brunswick by secure video. Book a session now: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=14249112

Grief and loss can affect every part of a person’s life, and each individual experiences it in their own way and at their own pace. In my work with clients, I often draw on the Tasks of Mourning approach developed by J. William Worden, which focuses on helping individuals process the reality of a loss, work through the pain of grief, adjust to life without their loved one, and find ways to maintain a meaningful connection while continuing to move forward. While this framework is helpful, I do not take a rigid or one-size-fits-all approach. Instead, I adapt therapy to each client’s unique experience, providing a compassionate, supportive space where emotions can be expressed openly and withou

Individuals often come to see me for therapy in my practice in the downtown area of Toronto in order to help them cope with grief, bereavement, and difficulty adjusting to painful loss. For some clients this includes the loss of a close family member, for others this includes the loss of an intimate relationship. In either case, the opportunity to discuss such losses and to understand their impact is an important part of the psychotherapy process.

We all must deal with grief sometime in our lives. However, there are times we lose someone dear to us and it feels as if we will never see the sun again. Processing our loss through therapy helps to make that dark journey less difficult and in time blur the sharp painful edges of pain. During therspy we will look at and restructure negative debilitating thoughts and replacing them with more constructive and positive ones. We never fully get over the loss, but we learn how to celebrate and cherish our missed loved ones.

Grief can touch every part of life, whether you're mourning the loss of a loved one, the end of a relationship, changes in your health, or a life that no longer feels familiar. You don't have to move through grief alone or feel pressured to "move on." Together, we'll create a compassionate space where you can process your emotions at your own pace, make sense of your experience, and gradually reconnect with what matters most to you while honoring the loss you've experienced.

I understand how heavy and isolating grieving can be, and my goal is to help you find your way back to a place of hope, resilience, and emotional balance. Whether we meet face-to-face in my office or connect through secure online sessions, you will have a safe, supportive space to explore your feelings and start building a path forward. My approach to counseling focuses on creating a safe space where you can explore your feelings and thoughts.

Your experiences of grief and loss are unique. Therapy can provide a safe space to learn about grief and what to expect during this process. It may be helpful to explore some of the emotions you are experiencing, while understanding how to stay connected to others and develop a new relationship to and understanding of the loss you have endured. Book a free consultation to explore if we are a good fit.

In my practice you will find a safe place to talk about and work through pain, and the feelings of sadness, confusion, guilt, shame and anger that often accompany the experience of grief and loss. Moving through grief and loss is your personal journey that takes time and is experienced uniquely from your own perspective. I provide therapy, counselling and and support for people who have lost a loved one such as a family member, friend or colleague whether through death or the ending of a relationship, those who have lost an important pet or animal companion or people who have experienced a loss that includes a loss of a job or personal identity.

If you are dealing with grief and loss, I am here to support you. Whether you are struggling with overwhelming feelings or you do not know what to feel, the therapeutic space I am offering is one of validation, compassion, and curiosity. We will work together to process your experience in a way that is meaningful to you, changing our approach as your grief changes. Processing grief is rarely easy, but I will be with you every step of the way to witness and support your experience.

Art therapy and counselling support the gentle processing of grief related to loss, including death, relationship endings, identity shifts, and life transitions. Grief often lives in the body and can be difficult to put into words. Through somatic awareness, reflective conversation, and creative expression, clients can explore their grief at their own pace, honour what has been lost, and find ways to integrate the experience while rebuilding a sense of connection and meaning.

Grief often disrupts a person’s sense of identity, meaning, and the future. In my work with grief and loss, I draw on meaning-centered approaches influenced by Robert Neimeyer’s work in grief therapy, the concept of continuing bonds, and elements of Viktor Frankl’s logotherapy. Rather than encouraging clients to “move on” from a loss, we explore how the relationship with the person who has died or the life that has changed can continue to hold meaning, especially if the loss is close, and the client was the caregiver. Therapy focusses on helping you make sense of the loss, integrate it into your life story, and discover ways to carry the connection forward in a way that supports your resilie

Grief, another powerful emotion we experience when dealing with loss, is a conditioning that affects all human beings. In our society there is often a notion that we should hurry up and get over our grief but maybe we should grieve as long as we need to. One way to see loss is to see loss as change and then to let change in. By developing a practice of loving kindness towards ourselves and others we can take a gentler approach toward loss and pain.

My gentle, compassionate approach centres on offering practical and spiritual support to clients going through a grieving process, depending on the client’s particular needs and preferences. I find it is helpful and empowering for clients to understand the origins of the grief response so they’re better able to recognize and normalize it and support themselves as it arises, thus facilitating the healing process. In grief counselling, I draw from Nancy Reeves’ Energy Model as well as literature by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross.